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Old 10-09-2015, 03:25 PM
 
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I'm 21 and feel like a failure because I'm salivating over these girls' facebook profiles. I feel like I'm too old to have crushes and be obsessing over random girls. The sad thing is I have no plans on talking to any of them. I just want to see what their life is like. I feel gross.
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Old 10-09-2015, 03:26 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Good! Now stop doing that!
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Old 10-09-2015, 03:29 PM
 
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Ewwwww...
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Old 10-09-2015, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I'm 21 and feel like a failure because I'm salivating over these girls' facebook profiles. I feel like I'm too old to have crushes and be obsessing over random girls. The sad thing is I have no plans on talking to any of them. I just want to see what their life is like. I feel gross.
IIRC, I think the first step to solving a problem is admitting that you "feel gross" about your problem.
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Old 10-09-2015, 03:59 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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It's only "gross" if you take your pants off first..
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Old 10-09-2015, 04:03 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I'm 21 and feel like a failure because I'm salivating over these girls' facebook profiles. I feel like I'm too old to have crushes and be obsessing over random girls. The sad thing is I have no plans on talking to any of them. I just want to see what their life is like. I feel gross.
Do you do that on here?

I mean there's some stunning/lovely girls on here but at least I say hello.......

Nah seriously that's beyond strange that's weird!! People have been locked up for worse
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Old 10-09-2015, 04:06 PM
 
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I'm 21 and feel like a failure because I'm salivating over these girls' facebook profiles. I feel like I'm too old to have crushes and be obsessing over random girls. The sad thing is I have no plans on talking to any of them. I just want to see what their life is like. I feel gross.
Well, I'm older than you and I Facebook stalk everyone. It's not uncommon.
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Old 10-09-2015, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Denver and Boston
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I feel gross.
You feel gross because of your "facebook stalking" (I don't consider looking at someone's FB to be actual stalking)? Or you feel gross for some other reason?
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Old 10-09-2015, 05:01 PM
 
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Well, I'm older than you and I Facebook stalk everyone. It's not uncommon.
How is it stalking though when it's public online info? Stalking is when you wait outside their house
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Old 10-09-2015, 05:18 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I'm 21 and feel like a failure because I'm salivating over these girls' facebook profiles. I feel like I'm too old to have crushes and be obsessing over random girls. The sad thing is I have no plans on talking to any of them. I just want to see what their life is like. I feel gross.
Dude. 21 is young. I am over 30 and consider myself young. And I lust over a girl everyday. Usually in person, though. Like at the market or in the gym or at school, wherever. And yeah, though I don't FB that much I have a few crushes in their and have befriended chicks just cuz I thought they were hot, and we had a mutual friend or two, so I used that as an excuse. LOL.

Heaven help you the day stop lusting over women. It's one of the great things about being a normal healthy red-blooded American. Some may call you a Dawg. So what? To me that's sort of a compliment. Means ya got a healthy libido. And that sure as hell beats the alternative, right?

So, in this spirit, I am a UFC fan and was checking out some stuff on the women today. Ran across this pic, and have been lusting over it since.

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