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Old 10-15-2015, 10:04 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Stop buying bad food and don't get him anything. Make him go get whatever he needs.

Park farther away from stores and restaurants .
That will not help at all. He will just eat junk food all the time and go to the drive thru. Lots of choices everywhere.
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Old 10-17-2015, 03:08 PM
 
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Sadly, you can't help him until he wants help. And he doesnt. HE's perfectly happy doing what he's doing. There comes a point where you just have to save yourself. I dont know what the answer to that is, but its easy to see you are emotionally drained. I dont know what you can do now except maybe lead by example. Be the best person you can be for yourself. Maybe one day he'll see that and ask you for help in becoming the same way. But if not, you have to let him jump off the cliff without following.
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