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View Poll Results: Would you say that it's inappropriate to ask a woman who you don't know to sleep with you if this is
Yes it’s inappropriate, but stating your reason for asking WILL improve your chances. 1 5.26%
Yes it’s inappropriate, and stating your reason for asking WILL NOT improve your chances. 11 57.89%
No it’s not inappropriate, and stating your reason for asking WILL improve your chances. 2 10.53%
No it’s not inappropriate, but stating your reason for asking WILL NOT improve your chances. 5 26.32%
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:07 PM
 
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I'm currently in Seattle and I know I'm leaving within the next couple weeks. The thing is, I always make it a point to have sex with at least one woman whenever visiting a city and prospecting it as a potential place to live.

If I give a woman who's a complete stranger the aforementioned reason as to why I'm asking her for sex, do you think it's still inappropriate? And more importantly, do you think she would be more likely to say yes? Especially if I complimented her on how beautiful she looked? Thanks for any and all replies!
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:13 PM
 
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Yup, I guess if a woman wants it to be all about you and the notches on your belt, she'll jump at the chance.

Frankly, I'd question the mental state of a woman who would be swayed by something like this.
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:14 PM
 
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What's the worse that can happen? Probably a punch in the face, so not so bad. Go for it.
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:16 PM
 
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I don't CARE what your reasoning is.

You ask me if I want to sleep with you, I'm going to look at you like a lunatic or cuss you out.

Probably both.
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:22 PM
 
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What's the worse that can happen? Probably a punch in the face, so not so bad. Go for it.
Totally.. Yeah OP, I'm servin up free punches in the face right now if you wanna get in line..
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:27 PM
 
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. The thing is, I always make it a point to have sex with at least one woman whenever visiting a city and prospecting it as a potential place to live.
What is driving this behavior?

Yes.. it is inappropriate. Many think you would be crazy... and they just might be right.

Stating your reason (not they have any reason to believe you) would probably hurt your chances.

While you are at it, shave you head.. tell'm that you chemo isn't helping with the brain cancer and you are living day by day.
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:28 PM
 
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Yup, I guess if a woman wants it to be all about you and the notches on your belt, she'll jump at the chance.

Frankly, I'd question the mental state of a woman who would be swayed by something like this.
I'm not really concerned about her mental state as long as she's 18+ and is stable enough to completely understand my question and respond coherently.

It's not like I'm trying to give her a baby or be in a relationship with her that'll last longer than one night.

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What's the worse that can happen? Probably a punch in the face, so not so bad. Go for it.
^^^ This is the truth!! The pros far outweigh the cons...

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I don't CARE what your reasoning is.

You ask me if I want to sleep with you, I'm going to look at you like a lunatic or cuss you out.

Probably both.
Please read my reply to Mikala. I'll get over a dirty look and being cussed out. But the chance of her saying yes and giving me memories that will last a lifetime outweigh the temporary embarrassment of being told off, which I'll probably look back and laugh at.

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Totally.. Yeah OP, I'm servin up free punches in the face right now if you wanna get in line..
I really don't understand why violence would even come to mind as a response. Especially if I ask politely and articulate my reasoning in a non-threatening and non-perverse manner. But as I've stated before, it's worth a shot, especially if she's looking good.
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:31 PM
 
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If you make a "point" to always have sex in whatever city you're in, why are you asking for advice?
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:31 PM
 
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I'm also wondering how this will go over in Seattle-- a place which is normally very eager to get rid of outsiders (and not sleep with them as a good-bye gift)
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Old 10-16-2015, 01:32 PM
 
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What is driving this behavior?

Yes.. it is inappropriate. Many think you would be crazy... and they just might be right.
A desire to experience good feelings? And I guess it's this, "Oh yeah, I've been there" line of reasoning.

When I look back at my life, I would like to be able to look at a map and think back about all the ***** I've gotten over the years in all the various cities that I've been in.
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