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Old 12-14-2015, 05:22 AM
 
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It's been said here time and time again that a woman who treats you that way is a jerk. So you move on.
It's cute how you keep injecting "you" in there, like I asked for advice or the discussion is about me.

You keep saying the friend zone doesn't exist but in the same breath call a woman who uses a guy like that a jerk.

So you admit the scenario exists but refuse to give it the friend zone label, why? Because then it's not just the guys fault and you have to give the woman agency?

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Old 12-14-2015, 05:46 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It's cute how you keep injecting "you" in there, like I asked for advice or the discussion is about me.
You've never heard of the "universal you"??

I said IF a person is treating another person badly, that other person should not hang around the first person. IF one finds oneself in such a scenario and remains there, one is a jerk, the other is a pushover. It's not a "zone." There is no "agency." It's just people behaving badly and yes, both genders do it. I've never said or implied otherwise.

Stop with the PUA jargon and focus on something worthwhile in life.

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Old 12-15-2015, 01:38 PM
 
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You've never heard of the "universal you"??

I said IF a person is treating another person badly, that other person should not hang around the first person. IF one finds oneself in such a scenario and remains there, one is a jerk, the other is a pushover. It's not a "zone." There is no "agency." It's just people behaving badly and yes, both genders do it. I've never said or implied otherwise.

Stop with the PUA jargon and focus on something worthwhile in life.
Lol the "friend zone" terminology existed well before PUA. Hell, there are movies about it.

Focus on something worthwhile in life? Please sweetie. PUA is not, nor has never been, a "focus" in my life.
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Old 12-15-2015, 01:57 PM
 
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Lol the "friend zone" terminology existed well before PUA. Hell, there are movies about it.

Focus on something worthwhile in life? Please sweetie. PUA is not, nor has never been, a "focus" in my life.
Your posting history says otherwise.
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Old 12-15-2015, 02:00 PM
 
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Your posting history says otherwise.
Not falling in line with the feminist ideology does not make one a PUA.
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Old 12-15-2015, 02:01 PM
 
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Not falling in line with the feminist ideology does not make one a PUA.
It does make you a one-note band, though!
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Old 12-15-2015, 02:10 PM
 
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It does make you a one-note band, though!
Of course, not thinking the way you do puts me in a specific box. I'm shocked. So insightful.
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Old 12-15-2015, 02:13 PM
 
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Of course, not thinking the way you do puts me in a specific box. I'm shocked. So insightful.
Not really a box. It's more like a long, long line.

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Old 12-15-2015, 02:18 PM
 
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Not really a box. It's more like a long, long line.
Lol.

Labeling people and then using that label to dismiss their opinion is intellectually dishonest and a clear indication you can't debate with facts.
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Old 12-15-2015, 02:28 PM
 
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I'm wondering.
Not on Google maps, if that's what you are asking.
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