What are you looking for? (date, girlfriend, man, lover)

[HuntFishRepeat]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

Really? I don't see any in this thread.

I'm talking about the people saying dating sucks and they aren't looking

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by HuntFishRepeat

I'm talking about the people saying dating sucks and they aren't looking

I don't know about dating sucks but what's wrong with not looking. Is it mandatory or something?

[49ersfan27]

Not looking for anything at the moment.

[Auraliea]

Originally Posted by HuntFishRepeat

I'm talking about the people saying dating sucks and they aren't looking

Not really getting how that's "depressing" either.

Not gonna look for something I don't have any interest in.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

I don't know about dating sucks but what's wrong with not looking. Is it mandatory or something?

I guess we are supposed to approach every woman we see.

[Frank_Carbonni]

Originally Posted by Ro2113

Your advice is very vague and simplistic.

Same thing that I was thinking.

In fact, it was pure simplistic fluff.

I have a very good idea of what is wrong in my life, but the problem is fixing it. There is a lot to fix financially, career wise, and in my personal life. I am working on it, but there is no guarantee of success and it is going to take a long time.

[Hivemind31]

I'm not sure if those who currently have what they're looking for are meant to respond, but I'm happiest with a small group of casual relationships (3-5 women) and the occasional ONS.

[Atlguy39]

I'm looking for a life partner. 30-40ish, may have a kid but wants another, down to earth, likes sex, educated, outgoing (because I'm an introvert), not materialistic, health conscious (actually works out and eats fairly healthy), good sense of humor.

Bonus for a woman who's a good cook.

This shouldn't be too hard to find, but its just about impossible, evidently.

[jarasen]

Look nothing. just reading what people say...

[Philosophizer]

Originally Posted by Frank_Carbonni

Same thing that I was thinking.

In fact, it was pure simplistic fluff.

I have a very good idea of what is wrong in my life, but the problem is fixing it. There is a lot to fix financially, career wise, and in my personal life. I am working on it, but there is no guarantee of success and it is going to take a long time.

Take some responsibility for your current situation. It didn't happen overnight. Get a new job or let your current situation eat away at you like a cancer. If you go all in on something else and fail, at least you didn't sit around feeling sorry for yourself while you slowly withered away.