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Old 10-28-2015, 09:00 PM
 
Location: TN
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How did you get over it? Any tips for your fellow men who struggle with this? I imagine you didn't just magically wake up one day, "over it".
That's what he'd like us to think.

 
Old 10-29-2015, 05:38 AM
 
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What makes things worst is that my girlfriend is just like me, jealous and insecure type! We fight a lot because we both are the same, we have the same issues! She gets mad everytime i hangout with my friends, gets mad when i go out without her. I know people here tell me to break up with her, i would do it a favor, blablabla...but i like this girl, i care about her and i want to try hard to make it work but she should try as well.
 
Old 10-29-2015, 05:48 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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You will get a lot of disagreement on that, big time.

I don't talk about sex a lot with most of my friends, it just isnt something that comes up too much. But if it is ok to do with one type of friend (same sex) then obviously it is ok to do with the opposite sex. Friends are friends. And I don't see at all how having a discussion with a friend could be considered "emotional cheating", unless you're a person that thinks that having emotions for friends is emotionally cheating. I don't know about y'all, but I have emotions for my friends.
 
Old 10-29-2015, 06:23 AM
 
Location: TN
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Don't ask me Timber, ask the posters who say it.
 
Old 10-29-2015, 06:29 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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What makes things worst is that my girlfriend is just like me, jealous and insecure type! We fight a lot because we both are the same, we have the same issues! She gets mad everytime i hangout with my friends, gets mad when i go out without her. I know people here tell me to break up with her, i would do it a favor, blablabla...but i like this girl, i care about her and i want to try hard to make it work but she should try as well.
Then y'all act like idiots. You're doing it wrong.
 
Old 10-29-2015, 06:30 AM
 
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What makes things worst is that my girlfriend is just like me, jealous and insecure type! We fight a lot because we both are the same, we have the same issues! She gets mad everytime i hangout with my friends, gets mad when i go out without her. I know people here tell me to break up with her, i would do it a favor, blablabla...but i like this girl, i care about her and i want to try hard to make it work but she should try as well.
You only have control over your own behavior, not how hard she tries. "She does it too!" is something that an eight-year-old says, not a grown man. Improve yourself. Then, if you aren't getting back what you give, then the relationship just isn't right.

This also seems like a lot of effort for someone you just "like."
 
Old 10-29-2015, 06:50 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Don't ask me Timber, ask the posters who say it.

You're the one I see saying it.
 
Old 10-29-2015, 07:31 AM
 
Location: TN
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You're the one I see saying it.
Have you not seen my thread I started about my EA? I was slammed by a dozen posters for talking to another guy. I'm not the one saying it. I'm the one living it.
 
Old 10-29-2015, 08:12 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Have you not seen my thread I started about my EA? I was slammed by a dozen posters for talking to another guy. I'm not the one saying it. I'm the one living it.
You were not just "talking to a guy."
 
Old 10-29-2015, 08:18 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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You were not just "talking to a guy."

Seriously, some selective memory there.
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