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So my best friends roommate was dating this guy she met on Tinder for 1 year. She just found out yesterday that he cheated on her in August with a girl he met one night at a bar. It was a one night stand but that girl came across his Tinder account last week and found out through Facebook he has a girlfriend and told his girlfriend about the ONS.
Anyway, he told his girlfriend he cheated on her to avoid becoming too emotionally attached to her.
!!??!?!??!?!?!?
Is this legit or is that worse excuse I've ever heard?
PEOPLE cheat because they are too weak to acknowledge that there is something wrong with the relationship that needs to be fixed. It is a selfish act.
It could very well be that he is afraid to get attached, but why would she stick with him after that revelation, anyway?
Plenty of people cheat when there isn't a damn problem in the relationship LOL... not sure where you're getting this utopia view that there must be some kind of problem...... LOL...
Plenty of people cheat when there isn't a damn problem in the relationship LOL... not sure where you're getting this utopia view that there must be some kind of problem...... LOL...
It's not a utopian view that there's something that needs to be fixed. That is, in fact, the reason people cheat.
It could be that they aren't getting enough sex.
It could be that they have a low self esteem and need to feel desirable.
It could be that they are just pigs and can't keep it in their pants.
Those are all PROBLEMS in a relationship, and if a person turns to someone else to cheat instead of facing them, they don't belong in that relationship and are weak of character for not confronting the problem.
Plenty of people cheat when there isn't a damn problem in the relationship LOL... not sure where you're getting this utopia view that there must be some kind of problem...... LOL...
I don't think people cheat when their relationship is hunky dory. I believe, there's an underlying problem/s of some sort. Something is definitely missing in the relationship.
So my best friends roommate was dating this guy she met on Tinder for 1 year. She just found out yesterday that he cheated on her in August with a girl he met one night at a bar. It was a one night stand but that girl came across his Tinder account last week and found out through Facebook he has a girlfriend and told his girlfriend about the ONS.
Anyway, he told his girlfriend he cheated on her to avoid becoming too emotionally attached to her.
!!??!?!??!?!?!?
Is this legit or is that worse excuse I've ever heard?
It's not a utopian view that there's something that needs to be fixed. That is, in fact, the reason people cheat.
It could be that they aren't getting enough sex.
It could be that they have a low self esteem and need to feel desirable.
It could be that they are just pigs and can't keep it in their pants.
Those are all PROBLEMS in a relationship, and if a person turns to someone else to cheat instead of facing them, they don't belong in that relationship and are weak of character for not confronting the problem.
Not sure what "utopia" that view comes from.
LOL, first you were careful to say "PEOPLE" now we've reverted to "pigs who can't keep in their pants" interesting switch up...
LOL....
No... I still stand by what I say... some people cheat even when things are just peachy... not many, but some.....
LOL, first you were careful to say "PEOPLE" now we've reverted to "pigs who can't keep in their pants" interesting switch up...
LOL....
No... I still stand by what I say... some people cheat even when things are just peachy... not many, but some.....
Women can be pigs. But nice try. What's up your butt today?
If someone cheats on you when the relationship is "peachy," then you were wrong about the relationship being peachy, because you're in a relationship with an a-hole.
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