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They are teenagers. They are having their own lives now. Hanging out at your house is not their life. And it shouldnt be forced on them. If they were younger, maybe.
If boyfriend was really interested in coming over, he'd make it happen without dragging teens with him.
I am done with divorce, so I won't marry unless I know for certain it is forever and that person, is as committed as I am to make it forever.
you will never know that for certain...not even close
marriage is a huge gamble/risk
part of me says, if one of you is not willing to relocate for the other, than what happens when a truly big sacrifice is needed...
another part of me says this would be ideal...keep your own residence, be together when you want, be apart when you want, your not locked together financially either...ideal...then this part of me says why even get married...just be a monogamous couple without the legal agreement...and that is pretty much how I feel about marriage...why...why lock yourself to someone financially...I know and know of plenty of peeps who don't divorce ONLY because they cant afford it, live in misery...why why why
I have been buying them video games for payment and we have not had to mow since October. I have a tractor for mowing so that's not a huge inconvenience for teen boys. That falls under driving/ fun.
Tooling around on a tractor, going where you want, is fun. Not driving up & down & back, over & over, mowing 2 1/2 acres at some woman's yard his dad is banging, who only pays with video games and not cash. There is nothing fun about that.
Him and I do work and worked fine when the kids came over.
Yes.
After the first two months you've complained quite a bit.
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They are teenagers. They are having their own lives now. Hanging out at your house is not their life. And it shouldnt be forced on them. If they were younger, maybe.
If boyfriend was really interested in coming over, he'd make it happen without dragging teens with him.
He tried doing that but they got into trouble home alone and their grandfather put his foot down to take them or stay home with them.
Bf and I have our kids most of the time. So if we are moving towards living together, which is the only way I will stay in this relationship, the kids will have to accept it.
you will never know that for certain...not even close
marriage is a huge gamble/risk
part of me says, if one of you is not willing to relocate for the other, than what happens when a truly big sacrifice is needed...
another part of me says this would be ideal...keep your own residence, be together when you want, be apart when you want, your not locked together financially either...ideal...then this part of me says why even get married...just be a monogamous couple without the legal agreement...and that is pretty much how I feel about marriage...why...why lock yourself to someone financially...I know and know of plenty of peeps who don't divorce ONLY because they cant afford it, live in misery...why why why
Well because I want the husband and married life. I have had 20 years of flings, and short term relationships. I am done with all that.
If that is all he wants than he can move on to find it with someone else.
After the first two months you've complained quite a bit.
Only because I don't see him. I want to come home from work fix dinner, spend time with the kids, put kids to bed and spend the evening with my spouse.
Well because I want the husband and married life. I have had 20 years of flings, and short term relationships. I am done with all that.
You need 10 years of not dating, being single, and not trying to get a husband. Only then will you be possibly be ready to date and get married.
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