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Life goal met and all you accomplished is to make yourself known to everyone as a bitter lying idiot.
Congratulations.
To those here perhaps but not anyone else. So women, even you think no matter how bad a man abuses a woman he should still have a chance at a life? How many men out there have greatly abused women to the point of PTSD but have great careers and a great life today? You think that's okay?
Of course as I am sure you've noticed I am very much an "ends justify the means" type person. If someone hurts someone else and they aren't punished due to technicalities or due to or whatever reason then I do believe it is acceptable to MAKE SURE they pay the price they deserved. He abused me for a long time, why DOESN'T a man that hurts women deserve to be cast out of society? And again, why is that a man that people think is racist looked down upon more than a man that abuses women?? WHY???
OP... you made yourself look pretty bad in this thread... just sayin...... I get that he was an abuser, but don't air out your dirty laundry like you did....
To those here perhaps but not anyone else. So women, even you think no matter how bad a man abuses a woman he should still have a chance at a life? How many men out there have greatly abused women to the point of PTSD but have great careers and a great life today? You think that's okay?
You are not talking about other people in your original post, you specified you and your boyfriend.
why not just be glad your free of the a-hole? I mean the guy may have deserved a good butt whooping for what he did to you...but all those lies you spread are just you stooping down to his level....if he is a women beater he's obviously already a miserable person and on the road to more misery.....like I said just move on with your life without the douche...by you being vindictive and letting what he did to you turn you into an evil person your letting him win..
How sick is that? You should see just how many men actually get punished for abusing their woman, it's incredibly pathetic. But is it any wonder why rape and physical abuse among women is so incredibly high even in what's supposed to be a 1st world country when men that beat/rape women don't even really have to worry about getting punished for it?
As for why I posted this, I guess I just wanted to get this off my chest.
So, because the legal system is "broken" according to you, you can do whatever you can in your power to mete out your own justice?
Nope, not my thing. I would never go out of my way to stoop down to the level of people that I consider to be sub-human.
why not just be glad your free of the a-hole? I mean the guy may have deserved a good butt whooping for what he did to you...but all those lies you spread are just you stooping down to his level....if he is a women beater he's obviously already a miserable person and on the road to more misery.....like I said just move on with your life without the douche...by you being vindictive and letting what he did to you turn you into an evil person your letting him win..
When people deserve punishment I don't give a damn about morals and ethics. They are all arbitrary anyway. So what if by others standards I "stooped down to his level"? I don't care if I have to get on my knees, so long as he suffers that's all that matters to me. Not just for me but for all the other women that have been abused only to be laughed in their faces by our justice system by giving paltry sentences or even getting in trouble for it at all.
Are there other people who have physically or sexually abused you in your life?
No, but that's completely irrelevant. The fact in I was badly abused, the police are a total joke and couldn't care less if a man they release goes straight back to beat/rape/kill the woman.
I find it disturbing how many women here are so nonchalant about this. Just goes to show you how women are so used to not getting any justice from abusers they just accept it, and even if thousands of other women are beaten/raped/killed because of our justice system it's all perfectly fine so long as "due process" is done.
I find it disturbing that you think this will magically make him stop being angry and abusive towards women...
But then again I don't believe your story anyway and I'm really just killing time posting on here.
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