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Old 10-23-2015, 11:18 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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You totally deserve this so come back and let us know how it went.

 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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The other complication is that she is asking me to have sex with a very close friend ( i know him for more than a decade).The other problem is that I know that he is sexually attracted to me,i knew that from the beggining of our relationship as he was really straightforward but it was never an issue since he was always respectful towards me.

I am arguing that I cant have sex with this particular friend but she is not listening.She's adamant i do it or game over....she seems really frustrated and it tears me up
Hmmm, maybe you should have thought of that before you pressured hard to have sex with another woman?
 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Earth
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The other complication is that she is asking me to have sex with a very close friend ( i know him for more than a decade).The other problem is that I know that he is sexually attracted to me,i knew that from the beggining of our relationship as he was really straightforward but it was never an issue since he was always respectful towards me.

I am arguing that I cant have sex with this particular friend but she is not listening.She's adamant i do it or game over....she seems really frustrated and it tears me up
Yes. She's adamant just like you were adamant about her being with another woman in the 1st place and wouldn't let it go, all because it's your fantasy and what you wanted, and wouldn't stop until you got it.

She apparently wants to see action with this particular guy. So, bite the bullet and do it - it won't kill you. Or break up with her, and for future references, don't pressure people to do things. Or better yet, sit down and discuss things and ground-rules you're both comfortable with beforehand. Not afterward.
 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:20 PM
 
Location: CA
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Just try to not be "the bottom"
 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:22 PM
 
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Just do it. You'll be fine.
 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:24 PM
 
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Spread those cheeks!
 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:25 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Will you be pitching or catching?
 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:25 PM
 
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Just try to not be "the bottom"
Which means?the one to be penetrated?we discussed this.Given that she was doing whatever i was intructing her to do while she was having sex with the other girl then i ll have to also do whatever she instructs me and she has already told me that she wants to see me penetrated...So thats also something that is really freaking me out
 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:26 PM
 
Location: TN
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Well i know i was a jerk but watching two girls having sex has been one of my greatest fantasies ( I did enjoy it immensely tbh)
Ever hear of porntube? Or how about a willing partner you don't have to coerce or negotiate with? This whole situation is abusive imho. Both you and your girlfriend are taking the fun out of what should be mutually satisfactory sexual exploration. How old are you and she, because you sound extremely young and self centered?
 
Old 10-23-2015, 11:28 PM
 
Location: Missouri
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