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Why are you still posting about the bad men you used to date when you say you are currently in a relationship with a stable guy?
Something doesn't add up here. I'm surprised no one else has picked up on it.
Hot damn you are a hot mess.
I think it's neurosis. She's in a relationship with this guy, but already doesn't see it working and is expecting it to run into the ground like the previous. So, I suppose it's getting ready in advance.
She did mention is a previous thread she worries if this guy is gonna change and turn out like the others.
I think it's neurosis. She's in a relationship with this guy, but already doesn't see it working and is expecting it to run into the ground like the previous. So, I suppose it's getting ready in advance.
She did mention is a previous thread she worries if this guy is gonna change and turn out like the others.
Didn't she say she's known the current guy ahe's dating since they were kids or something?
Man I feel like we know the OP's whole life story Lol...
Didn't she say she's known the current guy ahe's dating since they were kids or something?
Man I feel like we know the OP's whole life story Lol...
Known this one since HS I think. The one she's known she she was 10 was the guy who lived with her that she just dumped. This guy was in the friendzone for years due to his smoking, and his beard (OP doesn't like the full beard thing). Now she's decided to date him because he's always been one to be there for her, and help her.
As good as our relationship is now, I am worried it could end. Learned behavior I suppose.
Both of you are used to chaos in your relationships. You either won't be able to handle not having this chaos and one of you will sabotage things or you will start having chaos (the more likely scenario) and this will sabotage the relationship.
As good as our relationship is now, I am worried it could end. Learned behavior I suppose.
Sorry, how simpler could he have put it for you. Hes content for now, until he finds something better and leaves. He wants to get married, but made it clear he doesn't want to move in with you and he's letting you know from the start. He has put a perimeter in "I will never move and you will never move in". That sentence would be my exit no matter how desperate I was. Your "perfect" man is there until someone else comes around. ( otherwise you wouldn't be posting if you had any doubts)
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I think Johnston County NC would be perfect for the OP. Lots of her type of men and she will mesh well with a good portion of the female population.
I've known several women with the same issues. It's more common then we think. They usually are oblivious that the problem is them because it doesn't become painfully obvious till they are past the age to easily do something about it. Even trashy,undereducated and needy women have some sort of sexual appeal in their youth. Two kids and 20 years later,not so much.
Sorry, how simpler could he have put it for you. Hes content for now, until he finds something better and leaves. He wants to get married, but made it clear he doesn't want to move in with you and he's letting you know from the start. He has put a perimeter in "I will never move and you will never move in". That sentence would be my exit no matter how desperate I was. Your "perfect" man is there until someone else comes around. ( otherwise you wouldn't be posting if you had any doubts)
He has said he does not want to move into my house, nor does his house have room for all of us. However, he does say things that say he is in for the long haul. Like over the weekend he said that I would eventually end up on the farm with him. He did not elaborate. Last night he said he had 5 years left of raising his kids, then he would just have mine to help raise.
I really do not know what he is saying and I am sure you do not either. But I do know that we have only been dating two months, so he does not have to explain anything to me yet.
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