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Is this the same man who is separated from his wife and refuses to give you details about their relationship? If he is the same guy, he's not ready to settle down with anyone. Don't take this relationship seriously, he's all about enjoying freedom at this point in his life. The fact that he wants a threesome tells you he doesn't want a solid commitment. Sorry.
I know you already decided not to do this, but I wanted to add my opinion and experience here.
From personal experience....don't do it. I'm a female and we had another guy, not another girl. It didn't ultimately ruin our relationship, but it sure did add to the stress we were already under. That, plus the combination of other issues ultimately ruined our relationship.
Also, I was confused by your post but it sounds like he wants another girl, but no guys? Who is he trying to sexually please here? Himself...he has no regard for your sexual desires and needs. A good partner will be looking to please you, not themselves always.
..it sounds like he wants another girl, but no guys?...he has no regard for your sexual desires and needs. A good partner will be looking to please you, not themselves always.
I agree.
If he was a sincere, sensitive, partner he would have suggested an orgy instead of a three way.
If you were to do this, you should definitely make him have to perform with a male as one of the conditions of your involvement in this scenario. After all, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
If you were to do this, you should definitely make him have to perform with a male as one of the conditions of your involvement in this scenario. After all, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Now my boyfriend has been talking about having an a la trois for a while here and there. So this week we get into it and he's like would i mind? At first he asked if i would mind if someone watched us or if we watched etc. So i was like i don't know .... i have had thoughts of being with a female but not seriously. So the next day he says a friend calls him up and she's always been open to joining in though he's never gone that route before. So the topic did come up and she's open and yes she does have a male friend who can join in. He says that the man is NOT to get comfy with him but he wouldn't mind not having him in the picture and he doesn't know how he would react to watching us. He ofcourse would be looking forward to the females getting along. Anybody who's been through this .... how did you feel after. Did the guy's attitude towards you change .......... etc
ok let me tell you I have done this in my past. There was nothing wrong but he wanted to see me with another female and male at same time. I did not have any problem with other females because I have been with them before. Having another man was different and was not so sure about this but wanted to try. I told him I would only do this if he join all of us in bed otherwise I would not participate. He said okay and we set up date at new years day. He bring two ladies but only one man. We started to drink wine and have dinner then we all go to spa inside hotel room. It was very nice. After spa, we lay down in bed and start making love to eachother. What surprise me most is he and other man start to make love. I did not expect to happen. This other man and him start doing things to eachother for many hours. First start out kissing, then do other stuff. I think its scary because I did not see protection and was worried for disease. After he finish with man, then he start with me and other girl. It was a good night and I recommend this in you to try only once and see if you like it.
If you were to do this, you should definitely make him have to perform with a male as one of the conditions of your involvement in this scenario. After all, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.
LOL....I would NEVER require this as part of the "deal". After all, it is about what *I* get off on too, right?
Believe it or not, there are some couples in this world that mutually enjoy bringing another female, and only another female into the mix. There are also those that bring another male in, without any "bi" play involved.
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