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Old 11-06-2015, 08:09 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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This is why I always advocate dating women out of your league. Regardless of the woman, you will have to put in a ton of effort. Might as well be with a hot girl that it's intelligent and nice with a good head on her shoulders/
Why would anyone waste time with someone that they don't think is awesome?
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Old 11-06-2015, 08:21 PM
 
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The fact that you haven't yet is evidence enough
What the hell does that even mean?
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Old 11-06-2015, 08:37 PM
 
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If I were single, I probably would. I'm too old to sit around and wait for someone great to find me. If I have to find him, big freakin' deal.
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Old 11-06-2015, 08:38 PM
 
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Sometimes when I read all the nonsense on here about how easy it is for women, I think I should try my own social experiment: just go out wherever, cold approach with all the suggested nuances (hair flip, etc.) and record my findings.
Not sure if you're kidding or not. However, if you were to do this to me & if I were into you, I would definitely respond favorably.
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Old 11-06-2015, 09:04 PM
 
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Just edited out what I said because for some reason I think now it went into the wrong thread, either that or I'm losing my mind. Move along!

Last edited by ShinyHappyLucy; 11-06-2015 at 09:26 PM..
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Old 11-06-2015, 09:18 PM
 
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What the hell does that even mean?
A man saying this exact thing would be met with responses of "what were you waiting for?"
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Old 11-06-2015, 10:16 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I don't think women are saints. I have a very high sex drive. But I want to have sex with someone that I'm attracted to inside and out - not some stranger.
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Lots of women (and men) are like that, but there is no shortage of women that want to sleep with men just because they are eye candy, or they need a piece of the night.
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Old 11-06-2015, 11:34 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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This is why I always advocate dating women out of your league. Regardless of the woman, you will have to put in a ton of effort. Might as well be with a hot girl that it's intelligent and nice with a good head on her shoulders/
You make a good point. When I date I usually go for women who are beautiful but that's not working for me either. I think I ask women out to fast and need to get to know them better.
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Old 11-06-2015, 11:47 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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You make a good point. When I date I usually go for women who are beautiful but that's not working for me either. I think I ask women out to fast and need to get to know them better.
I haven't found this to really matter at all. I've had plenty of situations where women initially reject me, then, seemingly out of nowhere, become interested. It's happened so many times that I've come to expect it.
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Old 11-07-2015, 06:55 AM
 
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Not sure if you're kidding or not. However, if you were to do this to me & if I were into you, I would definitely respond favorably.
Not totally kidding at all. I have thought about it.
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