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Old 11-01-2015, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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It is more nuanced. Depends on the man. If envisions his life where his partner spends lots of time with his friends and family, it is important. If he lives in more of an island with his partner and they only interact with his circle occasionally, the. It doesn't matter.
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Old 11-01-2015, 04:18 PM
 
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My circle is not that diverse so if she held wildly different views then they would likely not be consistant with mine. But they would have to be wildly different AND she would have to be over the top passionate about them for things to not work. I am not so desirable that I can afford to nit pick too much but if the views/religion/etc are too divergant with my circle then they will likely be divergent with me.

But if she is ethicly and culturally the same then the odds of that are pretty slim. Its when you start crossing ethnic boundries where those sorts of issues become irreconsilable. I mean if your both 2 ethnic germans and one of you believes in staying up till midnight and the other at 8pm its probably fine. If one of you is ethnic german and the other is muslim islam then there are likely to be significant issues.

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But if a woman satisfied your personal preferences yet she conflicts with the overall beliefs/ideals/etc. of your circle would you date/have LTR with her?
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