Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 11-01-2015, 10:31 PM
 
4,039 posts, read 3,773,496 times
Reputation: 4103

Advertisements

No. I don't trust my memory. It always makes me think the past is better than the present especially if I'm having a tough time at the moment.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 11-02-2015, 12:29 AM
 
27,957 posts, read 39,775,529 times
Reputation: 26197
Quote:
Originally Posted by Chowhound View Post
Awesome song. Need a little brain salad surgery.

The original question, yes.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-02-2015, 07:44 AM
 
311 posts, read 292,690 times
Reputation: 371
I met my "dream" girl at work, but unfortunately we have policies against such thing.
Everyone else also advised against it.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-02-2015, 08:01 AM
 
12,585 posts, read 16,950,852 times
Reputation: 15256
I think we all will second guess ourselves when we make a serious commitment.

Thing is, you get a different basket of problems with each person. Will you look over at the other basket thinking it's not as full and wonder if it would be worth it?

Oh man that basket is what I wanted small and half full. Where was that basket when I was single? Lol!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-02-2015, 09:12 AM
 
Location: TN/NC
35,066 posts, read 31,293,790 times
Reputation: 47534
Definitely. I hit it off with someone wonderfully about ten years ago. We had attended the same schools but didn't get to know each other until several years after we graduated. Had we known each other as kids better, I think things would have been different.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-02-2015, 09:40 AM
 
Location: TN
1,273 posts, read 991,213 times
Reputation: 1225
Yes yes yes. Read my blog. All about him. But I'm learning to accept there exists someone like him that is unavailable, and that it's ok. We can't live in a world of what-ifs and if-onlys.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-02-2015, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Middle Earth
951 posts, read 1,140,470 times
Reputation: 1877
Yes! Especially when I was attached. Now that I'm single, nobody has appeared or he's attached. Funny how that works.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-02-2015, 03:23 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
15,675 posts, read 11,525,422 times
Reputation: 12549
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lostandhurt View Post
Have you ever believed that you met the "right" person but at the wrong time? I feel like if I met my ex in 8 years when we had established lives things would be different. I guess college relationships generally don't work out in the long run.
Absolutely!!!!!!

When I was 18 I met a girl in a club she was 21, she was easily the best looking i had ever pulled by that time ( and quite possibly by now looking back ). She lived on the other side of town right on the London/Kent border and we met up and it was the best date I've ever had.

She was perfect looks, personality everything she turned so many heads it was unreal, I'll never forget people's faces when out with her as if to say " what's she doing with him " LOL.

She was at university and was actually seeing someone that was in the army so we agreed not to pursue it

After only one date/ no sex I'm was absolutely certain she was the one!!! The first and last time I was heartbroken.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-02-2015, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Bellevue & Seal Beach
768 posts, read 718,666 times
Reputation: 1404
Right person. Wrong generation. So sad & such a tragedy!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-02-2015, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
5,987 posts, read 10,470,434 times
Reputation: 10809
Quote:
Originally Posted by Cardiff Giant View Post
I think just about everyone has at least "one that got away."
Indeed. She was the right one, as I was for her. The timing was off - but she came back 6 months later. That was 15 years ago, and we're still right for each other, all the time.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top