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Old 11-05-2015, 11:17 AM
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Location: Phoenix,AZ
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It could actually be life threatening for the OP to continue in contact with the ex.
I was just gonna chime in and reply that folks should walk away from all of the unnecessary drama in life. But then if this guy continues to bang a married woman, then yeah...there could be no life.

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Old 11-05-2015, 11:36 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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lots of people going through divorce date
No doubt. However, it's not a very good idea to get serious with someone who hasn't tied up the loose ends of their marriage.
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Old 11-05-2015, 11:45 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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just in case anyone was wondering i stopped responding to her texts. I was just curious about her motives mainly.
Meh...
the bottom line is that after dating you, she ran back to her husband & called off her divorce.
Do you really need to know her motives?
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Old 11-05-2015, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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No doubt. However, it's not a very good idea to get serious with someone who hasn't tied up the loose ends of their marriage.
When I was single I wouldn't date anyone who wasn't a few years out from the actual divorce.
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Old 11-05-2015, 11:48 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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No doubt. However, it's not a very good idea to get serious with someone who hasn't tied up the loose ends of their marriage.
Agreed!!!!!!!!


I was seeing one when I was 18 she was 34 and married but had been separated for 3/4 months, her husband heard about us and as he still had keys to her apartment he walked in on us!!!!! 😱

Since then I've done well to steer clear of " married " women
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Old 11-05-2015, 11:48 AM
 
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I would normally chalk this up to "don't get involved with a married person" and leave it at that
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Old 11-05-2015, 11:56 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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lots of people going through divorce date
I did, and a lot of the men I met and dated were in a similar situation. The split from my husband was amicable and we were living in different states. In some states you have to be separated for a period of time before the divorce is finalized. We had been officially separated for 18 months by the time it was finalized. No drama.
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Old 11-05-2015, 12:00 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I did, and a lot of the men I met and dated were in a similar situation. The split from my husband was amicable and we were living in different states. In some states you have to be separated for a period of time before the divorce is finalized. We had been officially separated for 18 months by the time it was finalized. No drama.
Seriously you have to be separated for a certain length of time MP????

Do you know what is roughly the highest waiting time for it to be finalised in any given state?.
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Old 11-05-2015, 12:11 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Seriously you have to be separated for a certain length of time MP????

Do you know what is roughly the highest waiting time for it to be finalised in any given state?.
Where my divorce was finalized, in North Carolina, it was 12 months. It can range from 6-12 months in many states.
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Old 11-05-2015, 12:15 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Where my divorce was finalized, in North Carolina, it was 12 months. It can range from 6-12 months in many states.
Still quite shocking, I have no idea if there is such a rule in the uk or not.

I've always said it would take someone remarkable for me to marry and with ^^^ it would have to be someone even more so....... Just in case

Cheers for the answer
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