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I'm in my sixties, and desire sex a couple of times a day, but the equipment isn't up to it that often anymore.
Not to pick on you....but unless you're regularly GETTING sex twice a day and then STILL want it twice a day after that...how does that really count as wanting it that much? Otherwise, it's just thinking about sex all the time cuz you can't get any, right?
All you guys in your 30s and it is starting to decline? WTF? I'm 51 about to turn 52 and am still as active as ever if not more so. I've always had a strong drive, and I was lucky enough to marry someone 10 years younger than me last year. She also has a fairly strong drive and enjoys intimacy, so my sex life incredible considering I'm still a "newlywed".
If you are starting to decline in your 30s you need to be concerned IMHO. Make sure you are eating right and exercising. If you are covering those bases, I would consider talking to your doctor.
Well, if HE doesn't want it and his wife isn't complaining isn't that okay? What's the point of increasing your desire if you're not gonna get any? Sounds like torture!
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Pretty much every study out there indicates that a decline in your 30's is not only normal, but COMMON. We're talking DRIVE, not functionality (though even that isn't cause for alarm unless you're not working at all). It is 100%, absolutely normal for men to want it less in your 30's than in their teens/20's.
My guess would be (you don't actually quote any studies, do you?) that people may lose interest in sex due to raising children and such, but I have never wavered.
All you guys in your 30s and it is starting to decline? WTF? I'm 51 about to turn 52 and am still as active as ever if not more so. I've always had a strong drive, and I was lucky enough to marry someone 10 years younger than me last year. She also has a fairly strong drive and enjoys intimacy, so my sex life incredible considering I'm still a "newlywed".
Yes, you are lucky, indeed, to have married a woman 10 years your junior. Don't forget that. My ex-husband was 12 years older than I and a very fit guy, but he couldn't keep up with me.
Pretty much every study out there indicates that a decline in your 30's is not only normal, but COMMON. We're talking DRIVE, not functionality (though even that isn't cause for alarm unless you're not working at all). It is 100%, absolutely normal for men to want it less in your 30's than in their teens/20's.
Again, to reiterate: I'm not talking about absolute disinterest in sex or malfunctioning equipment. I'm talking about a decline in interest, RELATIVE to your teens/20s. Someone that doesn't experience this is the exception, not the rule. Naturally, everyone here will be an exception.
I agree, I remember being a teenager and couldn't think straight, it was brutal, I'm actually glad it's gone down a bit, can focus on other things... LOL...
Yes, you are lucky, indeed, to have married a woman 10 years your junior. Don't forget that. My ex-husband was 12 years older than I and a very fit guy, but he couldn't keep up with me.
I never had a guy who keeps up with me and doesn't cheat. Seems to be either lots of sex and share the guy or not enough sex but a faithful guy.
Yes, you are lucky, indeed, to have married a woman 10 years your junior. Don't forget that. My ex-husband was 12 years older than I and a very fit guy, but he couldn't keep up with me.
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I never had a guy who keeps up with me and doesn't cheat. Seems to be either lots of sex and share the guy or not enough sex but a faithful guy.
I've said this before, if a man is handling business right, he can't keep up with a woman once she's tuned up properly..... any guy says he can, he isn't getting her tuned up properly... LOL...
I've said this before, if a man is handling business right, he can't keep up with a woman once she's tuned up properly..... any guy says he can, he isn't getting her tuned up properly... LOL...
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