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I hate that kids have to be in the middle of this situation because leaving or staying can affect them negatively. Guys like him don't usually change.
We don't know what is going on in your relationship...so honestly our advice is next to useless. If you are not happy....your kids are going to sense that eventually.
Did your mind also tell you that this was a good idea?
What do you mean.... Having children together? If that's your question then no I didn't want to have my daughter but I don't believe in abortions and the second one wasn't planned either , I KNOW I KNOW stupid on my end , but I love my kids and u can't really help who you fall for & yes, 21 this month
What do you mean.... Having children together? If that's your question then no I didn't want to have my daughter but I don't believe in abortions and the second one wasn't planned either , I KNOW I KNOW stupid on my end , but I love my kids and u can't really help who you fall for & yes, 21 this month
I'm going to try to be very nice here - but is there someone you can talk to? A counselor? A pastor? A family friend? Because you are soon going to be raising 2 children and you HAVE to grow up and start making better decisions. I mean - seriously. What kind of a life are your children going to have? What kind of an example are you both setting for them? I'm not a perfect mother by any means - but we provide our children with love, stability, and a non-abusive environment. Think about your children and get some help. And PLEASE, for the love of god, use birth control.
Unless you put them up for adoption, these kids are going to be raised in the same type of abusive environment you were raised in and will make the same bad choices in men when they are older.
I've already told you the ramifications. I'm a CPS worker and I see it every day!
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