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Do Not come right out an say you want a hookup, as that could turn him off. Let him continue to be the pursuer, and think he was won you over. The sex will be better. Wait until after about 10/11pm and just text him a "Hey, was just thinking of you" type of message and let him do the rest.
Good luck.
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Originally Posted by MissmamaAnnie
I was talking to this guy a month ago who was giving me the impression that he just wanted to hook up.ie talking about sex and wanting to come over at my apartment .
So I told him that I'm looking for something more meaningful and I cut off contact with him.
However, the time apart made me realize that I don't see him as bf material either but I would be down for a hook up.Its been over a year since I slept with someone.I would like to pick up were we left off
I would like to approach him again but I don't know how to go about it.I was thinking to send him a message on fb.what should I say to him? I changed my mind? should I just invite him at my place? please no judgements.thanks
If men want to approach women for a sex, I don't see a problem with it, but a woman needs to show a little more class. imo
Women these days have absolutely no class.
Oh get lost with this Bull crap! Women these days have no class?? Men haven't had class since day ONE. So what's your point? I swear some people can make some of the most downright ignorant statements.
WHY SHOULD A WOMAN HAVE TO SHOW MORE CLASS THAN A MAN??? It's okay for a man to drag his knuckles on the ground and act like a dog in heat, but a woman has to be 'classy'??? Yeah, but you don't see a problem with THAT, do you? Yeah, of course you don't. That kind of thinking is what's DISGUSTING!
How about the MAN start learning to be more classy? This is the year 2015 almost 2016. Men can learn to have some class too instead of acting like pure jungle animals. Or is that just too hard for you..no pun intended.
However, the time apart made me realize that I don't see him as bf material either but I would be down for a hook up.Its been over a year since I slept with someone.I would like to pick up were we left off
what should I say to him? I changed my mind? should I just invite him at my place? please no judgements.thanks
Do Not come right out an say you want a hookup, as that could turn him off. Let him continue to be the pursuer, and think he was won you over. The sex will be better. Wait until after about 10/11pm and just text him a "Hey, was just thinking of you" type of message and let him do the rest.
Good luck.
Disagree with this completely. Why can't she simply say she's just looking for a hook up? What's wrong with a woman saying she wants to screw, and that's it?
I hate it when a woman plays games like you recommend above. I personally will not put up with this type of bull#$#@. A woman will have to make it obvious to me that she wants to screw...if that's what she wants. If she plays games, I will lose interest & that will be it.
Calm down. Women want sex just as much as men. Pretending otherwise does no one any good. Who are men supposed to hook up with if there aren't women interested in sex, other men?
"Calm down. Women want sex just as much as men." Women aren't supposed to want sex. They're supposed to hold still for it.
"Who are men supposed to hook up with if there aren't women interested in sex, other men?" Actually, yes, in this day and age.
I was talking to this guy a month ago who was giving me the impression that he just wanted to hook up.ie talking about sex and wanting to come over at my apartment .
So I told him that I'm looking for something more meaningful and I cut off contact with him.
However, the time apart made me realize that I don't see him as bf material either but I would be down for a hook up.Its been over a year since I slept with someone.I would like to pick up were we left off
I would like to approach him again but I don't know how to go about it.I was thinking to send him a message on fb.what should I say to him? I changed my mind? should I just invite him at my place? please no judgements.thanks
A year? Does this mean that the long-term relationship path has been pretty rocky?
If you want sex with no obligations, ask for that.
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