Need HELP ! Women- What makes you feel valued ? (feelings, relations, celebrate)
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Every woman is different and every man is different but personally I don't put any labels on anything.
I don't have to have a checklist of anything.
If I am attracted then I am attracted and I wait and see what happens naturally.
This one. I wish there was one answer, but there isn't.
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My love languages are affection and attention. So I feel valued when you are 100% focused on me when we are together. I like lots of hugs and cuddling.
I also need you to remember (listen actively) little things and show me you do. So let's say I told you my favorite cupcakes are yellow cake with chocolate frosting. If you saw one and got it because they reminded you of me, that's a lot of points.
And creating unique shared memories and experiences we can refer to later.
This, and showing interest in my work or interests or causes and opinions, achievements, whatever. In a nutshell, being into me for my mind, not just my body.
Exactly that, what makes you feel valued, special in a relationship ? Especially a new relationship.
My X wife told me this from time to time and now I just ended a 4 month relationship because she brought this up for a third time. I felt like I was giving her 100%, but apparently not.
So what does your guy do, say etc that makes you feel valued ?
You are keeping score. Who cares HOW many times a subject is brought up. It must be important to her if she brought it up 3x. Yes?
Exactly that, what makes you feel valued, special in a relationship ? Especially a new relationship.
My X wife told me this from time to time and now I just ended a 4 month relationship because she brought this up for a third time. I felt like I was giving her 100%, but apparently not.
So what does your guy do, say etc that makes you feel valued ?
I'd say this is more of a communication issue than it is an issue of specific things that you can do to make a woman feel valued.
Exactly that, what makes you feel valued, special in a relationship ? Especially a new relationship.
My X wife told me this from time to time and now I just ended a 4 month relationship because she brought this up for a third time. I felt like I was giving her 100%, but apparently not.
So what does your guy do, say etc that makes you feel valued ?
I tried to read this to understand but missed it. You ended a relationship with your wife b/c she brought it up 3x or your ex brought it up twice and now a new GF has also brought it up? Either way, you're not listening and that's the fastest way to make a woman not feel valued. Why don't you ask her/them what is it you're not doing? If you don't get this straightened out you'll always struggle in your relationships.
I need your time, attention, and affection. Those things make me feel valued and loved .
I normally don't want or need gifts, but throw in an occasional bouquet of flowers (as I'm a sucker for them...even carnations!), and I'm putty.
It doesnt take much.
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