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Except he was having sex with others while they were separated and he does not appear to feel guilty about his sexual activities and does not keep bringing those up to his wife.
If he cannot accept her behavior then he should accept his own.
It's not the sleeping part that I am particular extremely bothered by. You can usually work that out. It's the fact that his wife did it with his 3 friends that is f**ked up. Me personally there would have been 4 relationships ending that night she admitted to sleeping with them to me.
I guess so! Seriously, (not that I'd ever stoop to that level of skankiness), even if I outright threw myself at them, there is no way one of the Mr.'s friends would take me up on it. Whether out of respect or outright fear of him, none of them would be mackin' on his squirrel.
Seriously. This is how careful my husband (then) room mate was:
I spilled a shot of DH's expensive tequila while he was upstairs. Jokingly I told his room mate "uh-oh! Don't tell him a spilled this!!!" DH was halfway downstairs when "Dude, she spilled your tequila!!!!!".
I asked him what was up with that?! He told me something that "guys don't lie to each other, it could be a test or something." Freaks. /lol
I thought it was funny, but in all fairness they work in a very infidelity-ish line of work, so they can go to the opposite extreme.
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Well, a few years back, my wife and I got back together, and had our second child. For two years prior to us getting back together, we were separated, with no intentions of getting back together. During that time, she slept with three of my friends.
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I let her know that I never think about anyone else she slept with, because I was having sex during that time as well, and I honestly don't care that she was. I only think of my friends that she slept with. She just honestly seemed to be very cold and insensitive about the situation. I left the room visibly upset for almost an hour, and she never came to check on me. How should I feel about this?
If the OP had such a big problem with this - why did he stay with her for 3 YEARS after he found out? That's what I can't figure out.
This. Either forgive her or divorce her. If you stay with her and hold this over her head that is on you. Yes it is low that she did that but at the same time you need to get out if you can't move on.
EDIT: just read you were HAVING SEX TOO. What in the hell? Just move on, quit being a hypocrite.
I don't think the issue is that she had sex, but had sex with 3 of his close friends. That is low, almost like she wanted to get back at him harshly.
He may have had sex, but it wasn't with any of her close friends.
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Freaks. /lol
