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Old 11-18-2015, 12:27 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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uhm, check my location, not everyone lives in a country where you can buy EVERY illegal drug you can imagine and alcohol is legal from age 21.

over here, sexual relationships are legal from age 14. alcohol/cigarettes from 18.
So why the hell is Gary glitter in Vietnam when he could fill his boots in Estonia then if the legal age is 14???
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Old 11-18-2015, 12:47 PM
 
Location: Tallinn, Estonia (EU) / Ewa Beach, HI
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no, she's not 14. over here, sexual intercourse is legal for persons from the age of 14 and up.
i have no idea wtf is gary glitter..

most EU countries have the consent limit at 14/16.
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Old 11-18-2015, 12:55 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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no, she's not 14. over here, sexual intercourse is legal for persons from the age of 14 and up.
i have no idea wtf is gary glitter..

most EU countries have the consent limit at 14/16.
A well known paedophile is Gary glitter 70s Rock singer,

In the U.K. It's 16

Right out and about now nice talking LOL
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Old 11-18-2015, 01:25 PM
 
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Youngest female I casually dated was 20 years younger, and that didn't last very long, it was a phase. I would imagine that the older you are, the less of an effect a 20 year difference would be. I draw the line, where you should be embarassed going out in public. Or if you want her to act like she is a relative, instead of your g/f. A few weeks ago, I was at the CC, having dinner, when I saw a much older member having dinner with his "daughter/neice"...actually grand daughter would probably be more in line. They both were having too much wine, and let their inhibitions get away from them. To my horror, along with 50+ other members, they got up from their table and stumbled out. This senior member, spanked the girls butt, they were laughing obnoxiously, before they exchanged an open kiss. I'm pretty open minded, but must wonder what kind of messed up childhood the girl had, for her to be sexually accepting of this old dude's wrinkled .....! Or she allows the money to blur the reality of it all. LOL, some things should never leave the privacy of your bedroom...out of sight out of mind.
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Old 11-18-2015, 01:51 PM
 
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CDR posters believe that the whole world works based on current laws of wherever they live. Sexual attraction is not based on age of consent, but basic human nature. If that weren't the case, someone's attraction would change everytime they crossed a border when travelling. You guys try so hard to be PC in everything you say, its very tiring. You are completely clueless on this subject.
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Old 11-18-2015, 01:53 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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CDR posters believe that the whole world works based on current laws of wherever they live. Sexual attraction is not based on age of consent, but basic human nature. If that weren't the case, someone's attraction would change everytime they crossed a border when travelling. You guys try so hard to be PC in everything you say, its very tiring. You are completely clueless on this subject.
Teach us, Oh Great One, about how women are at their peak of attractiveness at 13 and that this is totally right and good.
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Old 11-18-2015, 02:20 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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CDR posters believe that the whole world works based on current laws of wherever they live. Sexual attraction is not based on age of consent, but basic human nature. If that weren't the case, someone's attraction would change everytime they crossed a border when travelling. You guys try so hard to be PC in everything you say, its very tiring. You are completely clueless on this subject.
We also realize that for whatever sexual attraction there may or not be, that we are in control of our genitals and past history can show that huge mismatches in sexual relationships tend to not favor the younger as younger people don't always understand that there are myriad of things that go along with sex and it can cause a lot of "issues" for young people and they aren't always equipped and mature enough to deal all of the side stuff with sex.

That is part of the reason why these laws are in place... and I get that sometimes things aren't 100 percent across the board in ages and whatnot, in general a 14 yr old kid doesn't have the same emotional and intellectual intelligence that a 38 yr old does... hence the needs for some protections.
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Old 11-18-2015, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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The oldest woman I'll date up to is 7 years. Anything than older than that is weird to me. I love older women but not old enough to be my mother.
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Old 11-18-2015, 02:27 PM
 
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CDR posters believe that the whole world works based on current laws of wherever they live. Sexual attraction is not based on age of consent, but basic human nature. If that weren't the case, someone's attraction would change everytime they crossed a border when travelling. You guys try so hard to be PC in everything you say, its very tiring. You are completely clueless on this subject.
So you believe that age shouldn't deter anyone's sexual desire? I doubt any young girl has sexual desires for old man ****. The fact you said that "crossing borders/travelling" would change someone's attraction, leads me to believe that you are pro human trafficking...which by the way causes long term emotional destruction to the victim....Of course you will say that she wants it as bad as you....lol....please have no daughters, grand daughters, neices, etc.
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Old 11-18-2015, 02:32 PM
 
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We also realize that for whatever sexual attraction there may or not be, that we are in control of our genitals and past history can show that huge mismatches in sexual relationships tend to not favor the younger as younger people don't always understand that there are myriad of things that go along with sex and it can cause a lot of "issues" for young people and they aren't always equipped and mature enough to deal all of the side stuff with sex.

That is part of the reason why these laws are in place... and I get that sometimes things aren't 100 percent across the board in ages and whatnot, in general a 14 yr old kid doesn't have the same emotional and intellectual intelligence that a 38 yr old does... hence the needs for some protections.
I don't disagree. I just find it silly that certain posters assume that all humanity should somehow follow their local laws or else they are pedophiles. Human nature, psychology and biology as well as sexual or any type of attraction for that matter, are not regulated by laws of where you live. Its simple close minded to think otherwise and I hate close minded people. My god, travel a little, go spend some time in another country, go learn about other people and other cultures.
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