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Old 11-19-2015, 03:36 PM
 
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The ex doesn't even have to be your friend. If you've met their ex, would you be able to date that person? Or would the image just bother you too much and it would feel wrong? I have never been in that situation until now... I think it would be wrong but I may feel differently later on down the line since they broke up not too long ago. I'm also going to wait until they have rebounded...
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Old 11-19-2015, 03:37 PM
 
Location: Tri STATE!!!
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Not a friends ex. That's off limits.
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Old 11-19-2015, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Depends on the ex in question.
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Old 11-19-2015, 03:59 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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The ex doesn't even have to be your friend. If you've met their ex, would you be able to date that person? Or would the image just bother you too much and it would feel wrong? I have never been in that situation until now... I think it would be wrong but I may feel differently later on down the line since they broke up not too long ago. I'm also going to wait until they have rebounded...
A close friend nope that's below the belt ( literally ) no seriously that's bang out of order.

Someone I've just met on a night out or in passing well basically don't know that well......

........ ....... Yep F*** him!!
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Old 11-19-2015, 04:13 PM
 
Location: MA
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Sure I would.
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Old 11-19-2015, 05:17 PM
 
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The ex doesn't even have to be your friend. If you've met their ex, would you be able to date that person? Or would the image just bother you too much and it would feel wrong? I have never been in that situation until now... I think it would be wrong but I may feel differently later on down the line since they broke up not too long ago. I'm also going to wait until they have rebounded...
My boyfriends ex is dating my ex husband. Same chick also dated my last ex.
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Old 11-19-2015, 05:35 PM
 
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When you say "know", I'm not sure how well you mean. I would not date the ex of any of my friends. If it's just someone of whose existence I know, but we're not friends/acquaintances, sure I would date their ex.

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My boyfriends ex is dating my ex husband. Same chick also dated my last ex.
That's weird about that woman dating two of your exes. What are the chances of that? Do you live in a really small town?
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Old 11-19-2015, 05:50 PM
 
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I'm not friends with that girl. I just met her 2 or 3 times. I'm just hesitant because we hang out as a group and I don't want to ruin the group dynamic.. that girl obviously doesn't hang out with us anymore.

He added me on FB recently. I always felt a connection with him before even though I didn't know him that well. But I can't tell with an eager person especially if they broke up with their partner not too long ago and just want somebody around.
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Old 11-19-2015, 05:53 PM
 
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The ex doesn't even have to be your friend. If you've met their ex, would you be able to date that person? Or would the image just bother you too much and it would feel wrong? I have never been in that situation until now... I think it would be wrong but I may feel differently later on down the line since they broke up not too long ago. I'm also going to wait until they have rebounded...
So....this isn't an innocent happenstance. You are actually plotting. I'd say No.
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Old 11-19-2015, 05:56 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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I'm not friends with that girl. I just met her 2 or 3 times. I'm just hesitant because we hang out as a group and I don't want to ruin the group dynamic.. that girl obviously doesn't hang out with us anymore.

^^^ Exactly, because of ^^^ this. Or you will have to hang out with other people.
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