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But I would ask what the plan was or make a plan, because I'm way too old and busy for hanging out. Guy my age who can't think of anything to do other than hang out? Idiot.
If a woman is looking for a relationship and a guy asks her to hang out, would she really say "I don't hang out." ??
If woman is looking for a solid deep committed relationship she shouldn't "hang out" with a guy, hang out is code speak for let me **** you and use your body but give me the freedom to dump your ass when something better comes along speak that guys won't really admit to, but really, it is if you break it down.
My first thought would be that it's a shy way of asking her out.
I hate "hanging out" because I get confused. That is exactly my problem right now. I "hung out" with someone which means you are never sure if it is a date or not!
If woman is looking for a solid deep committed relationship she shouldn't "hang out" with a guy, hang out is code speak for let me **** you and use your body but give me the freedom to dump your ass when something better comes along speak that guys won't really admit to, but really, it is if you break it down.
^^^^ Exactly.
I've never paid any attention to guys who've approached me that way.
I've never been the type to just "hang out" with a guy without a specific purpose. It's either we're dating or we're not. I've always dated with the goal that things would develop into a serious relationship, and I've always expected the same from whoever I was dating. Otherwise, it's just a waste of time.
Okay... how do you tell them that you want more than "hanging out"? If you say "I don't hang out", will they get that you want something more serious? Or will that just make them think you don't like them?
Hanging out is what teenagers or college students do. Basically you just spend time together with no particular plan.
If someone said that to me, I would probably not take it literally. But I would ask what the plan was or make a plan, because I'm way too old and busy for hanging out. Guy my age who can't think of anything to do other than hang out? Idiot.
I hate "hanging out" because I get confused. That is exactly my problem right now. I "hung out" with someone which means you are never sure if it is a date or not!
IDK, I've never had that happen, where a man wanted to "hang out" like he does with his buddies. Especially since it typically involved date-like behavior.
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Originally Posted by GKelly
Okay... how do you tell them that you want more than "hanging out"? If you say "I don't hang out", will they get that you want something more serious? Or will that just make them think you don't like them?
You flat-out ask for clarification: "Do you mean 'hang out' as in a date?"
I dont blame her for saying she doesn't hang out. Grown adults should not ask others to hang out if they intend it to be a date.
IMO, hanging out is something that teenagers do, occupy space together. My friend's daughter started college this year and was excited when she was asked on an actual date, instead of just to hang out with the guy, and told us she felt more grown up now. It was cute!
Hang out is too ambiguous and anyone who wants to date is best to avoid the phrase.
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