No kissing after the third date, what to do? (attracted, advice, feeling)

[1xolisiwe]

Originally Posted by Butterflyfish

On your next date, if you are both having a good time, just wait for the right moment and go for a kiss. At the very latest, do it at the end of the date when you say goodnight. Plant one on her lips.

Most women will be expecting you to at this point, so don't disappoint her. Good luck!

Agreed! She's agreed to 3 dates already which shows some level of interest. She's probably wondering why you haven't tried to kiss her already.

[Butterflyfish]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

No kissing after the 3rd date = not interested.

That's probably what she is thinking. It's time for him to show her otherwise.

[ScarletG]

Going for a kiss on a 4th date is not the same as being a 'bad ass' and not treating people well. Get that put of your mind....it's a false dichotomy.

Next...get over the fact she's dated a guy older than you and you were dumped for a guy that was older....she's obviously not still dating him.

Believe me...she's probably both nicely surprised that you have some restraint and wondering when you're gonna make a play.

Just wait for a moment that seems right and give her a kiss. Don't shove your tongue down her throat...don't make it too long but more than a peck.....believe me you will be able to tell if she's in a reciprocal state of mind.

First kisses can sometimes be ackward...just don't stress so much....laugh if you bump teeth....if itvworks....follow up with a longer kiss at some point later in the night.

[49ersfan27]

Originally Posted by Butterflyfish

That's probably what she is thinking. It's time for him to show her otherwise.

Yup. Gotta go for it after the first or second date.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by ScarletG

Going for a kiss on a 4th date is not the same as being a 'bad ass' and not treating people well. Get that put of your mind....it's a false dichotomy.

Yeah, that's disturbing that he thinks that.

There's a BIG difference, OP, between "assertive" and "a**hole."

[MissClutterbuck]

Originally Posted by ScarletG

Going for a kiss on a 4th date is not the same as being a 'bad ass' and not treating people well. Get that put of your mind....it's a false dichotomy.

Next...get over the fact she's dated a guy older than you and you were dumped for a guy that was older....she's obviously not still dating him.

Believe me...she's probably both nicely surprised that you have some restraint and wondering when you're gonna make a play.

Just wait for a moment that seems right and give her a kiss. Don't shove your tongue down her throat...don't make it too long but more than a peck.....believe me you will be able to tell if she's in a reciprocal state of mind.

First kisses can sometimes be ackward...just don't stress so much....laugh if you bump teeth....if itvworks....follow up with a longer kiss at some point later in the night.

This.

She's trying to figure out why you haven't made the move, dude!! She thinks SHE has been friend zoned.

[RJ312]

I'd be most concerned about the time space between dates. In the early stages of dating, you should be seeing each other about every 3-5 days.

[ScarletG]

Originally Posted by RJ312

I'd be most concerned about the time space between dates. In the early stages of dating, you should be seeing each other about every 3-5 days.

You've never been a grad student have you?

[MissClutterbuck]

Originally Posted by RJ312

I'd be most concerned about the time space between dates. In the early stages of dating, you should be seeing each other about every 3-5 days.

Oh there he is!!

What kept you??

[Raena77]

Just kiss her. The moment you are in a private surrounding.