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Old 11-25-2015, 01:47 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Sorry man, but that is such a weak attitude.

She's taken

She would never give me time of day

I'm not wearing the right close

insert any other excuse for not taking action <here>

Youre a man. TIme to start taking risks and aiming high. No one has ever died from rejection.
Or I'll do whatever I want and not be shamed by people like you. Attractive women are too much work to date so I'd rather not ask one out.
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Old 11-25-2015, 01:52 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Or I'll do whatever I want and not be shamed by people like you. Attractive women are too much work to date so I'd rather not ask one out.
Men should put the effort in for ANY women regardless but an attractive one surely it's even more worthwhile?
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Old 11-25-2015, 01:57 PM
 
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Or I'll do whatever I want and not be shamed by people like you. Attractive women are too much work to date so I'd rather not ask one out.
Just because a woman is attractive, that makes her too much work to date? How do you figure that?
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Old 11-25-2015, 01:57 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Men should put the effort in for ANY women regardless but an attractive one surely it's even more worthwhile?
Haven't met a woman that's worth the effort as of late. Haven't asked a woman out in almost 5 months that's why I'm staying single.
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Old 11-25-2015, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Just because a woman is attractive, that makes her too much work to date? How do you figure that?
In my case, yes. You have to deal with other men hitting on her all the freaking time! That might sound like insecurity but that is tiresome to me. Better leave the attractive women to men who can handle that because I sure can't.
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Old 11-25-2015, 02:00 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Haven't met a woman that's worth the effort as of late. Haven't asked a woman out in almost 5 months that's why I'm staying single.
Is that the only reason your staying single then? Because you've not met any " worth the effort "? Or is there any other reason?
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Old 11-25-2015, 02:01 PM
 
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In my case, yes. You have to deal with other men hitting on her all the freaking time! That might sound like insecurity but that is tiresome to me. Better leave the attractive women to men who can handle that because I sure can't.
So, you are not good enough for an attractive woman to want you over the other guys hitting on her?
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Old 11-25-2015, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Is that the only reason your staying single then? Because you've not met any " worth the effort "? Or is there any other reason?
That's mainly it. I've been asked out before but wasn't interested.
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Old 11-25-2015, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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So, you are not good enough for an attractive woman to want you over the other guys hitting on her?
Nope not really.
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Old 11-25-2015, 02:09 PM
 
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Just wondering - have any of you ever came across someone you found super attractive (maybe not just attractive to you, eyes in beholder bull, but clearly they are universally attractive) and you came and approached them? What happened? Whst worked, whst didn't work?

For me personally, I'd say I'm quite an attractive female but I have never approached a guy lol and never will. If I did find a guy attractive, I would look at him and if he catches my glance, I'd smile and hope to God he comes over LOL.
Ok I am a man and only did it twice in my life. Once I was driving home from the beach with my buddy all tanned a bit buzzed in my Jeep wrangler, a crazy hot girl driving other way in Mercedes convertible, hung a uturn chased her down and asked her out. I mean asked her out that moment, I said follow me to the the happy hour place I knew at the beach.

We had a few drinks, made out and I took her on a date that weekend. Suprise Suprise she was a "retired" supermodel. She was only like 27 but was on cover of Cosmo, Vogue, you name it.

Apprantlly, me being long on charm and looks she weeded me out quick as I was short on money. Third date she asked if I would like to join her country club and meet her Dad, it was $40,000 to join. No third date, damm that ended quick.

Second time walking down second avenue, saw a amazing girl eating dinner with friends, I actually introduced myself. I took her to my Hamptons house that weekend. Girl was a model/actress appeared on parts in TV. Even she figured out my Mercedes Convertible and my Jeep Convertible both were used, my Hampton house was a share house, my apt a rent stabalized. This time we were both long on looks and charm but neither had money and both expensive tastes. I lent her one of my cars for a week vacation and it backfired, her friends thought I was getting too serious too quick. Little did she know I was about to sell Jeep as I could no longer afford two cars and could care less if she wrecked it.
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