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Old 11-24-2015, 10:57 PM
 
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Ok so this is just a continued discussion from the other thread. How many dates would it be appropriate to go in for the kiss? Haha not going to lie, I was reading the other thread and seems like alot of you are shocked they did not kiss after the 3rd date and tbh, I'm shocked that you guys think that?

Am i the only one that thinks it's too soon/early? Or maybe from my experiences, I've always hung out with multiple guys at once and once Ive short listed who I hit it off best, it's already on the 5th or 6th date when things get a lil more serious. And even THEN, I kind of wait til the right moment and then we kissed.. which could be the 7th or 8th time we hung out lol. Doesn't always happen ! But usually if I'm talking to multiple guys at once lol. Am I the one being not normal hahah

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Old 11-24-2015, 11:01 PM
 
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i dont kiss until she is ready for it. and there are plenty of indications that she is or is not ready to be kissed.
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Old 11-24-2015, 11:13 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles, California
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Am i the only one that thinks it's too soon/early? Oraybe from my experiences, I've always hung out with multiple guys at once and once Ive short listed who I hit it off best, it's already on the 5th or 6th date when things get a lil more serious.
This^^

Kissing on the third date is definitely way too early for me. I need more time than that to decide if I'm even digging the guy.

And then I also like to be chased a little...
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Old 11-24-2015, 11:23 PM
 
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This^^

Kissing on the third date is definitely way too early for me. I need more time than that to decide if I'm even digging the guy.

And then I also like to be chased a little...
Yeah, seriously! What's fun when you put out too early? I like the chase n the ones holding the cards lolol. Gosh girl, you and I are too alike !
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Old 11-24-2015, 11:24 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Ive yet to experience not kissing by the second date. No kissing after the sec date, I'm calling no joy; moving on.
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Old 11-24-2015, 11:29 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Yeah, seriously! What's fun when you put out too early? I like the chase n the ones holding the cards lolol. Gosh girl, you and I are too alike !
So, you like playing those card games

How old are you? Im guessing, 18-22?
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Old 11-24-2015, 11:39 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I don't really like to kiss on the first date. Or maybe it seems like the people I have no interest in kissing, try to jump right in on the first date. And the ones I like end up taking it a little slower.

3rd date seems reasonable, but there is more buffer if we've already been a bit touchy!
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Old 11-24-2015, 11:44 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles, California
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Yeah, seriously! What's fun when you put out too early? I like the chase n the ones holding the cards lolol. Gosh girl, you and I are too alike !
It sure seems like it :P lol
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Old 11-24-2015, 11:46 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'd never try to kiss a woman on the first date, but that is just me.... some people are different, I just can't imagine assigning activities and timelines to dates, I mean if things are going to happen I want them to be more organic and less scripted.....
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Old 11-24-2015, 11:48 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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It kind of depends how hot the guy is.
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