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Old 11-21-2015, 07:06 AM
 
Location: kansas city
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I know back in high school people were totally flabbergasted that u didn't do "it". I still kinda consider myself a virgin because I haven't had sex with a woman I love. I mean I did but she turned out to be a backstabbing beeyotch! so I still consider my cherry un-popped!
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:26 AM
 
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I know back in high school people were totally flabbergasted that u didn't do "it". I still kinda consider myself a virgin because I haven't had sex with a woman I love. I mean I did but she turned out to be a backstabbing beeyotch! so I still consider my cherry un-popped!
I think 22 is too old to still be worrying about what's "cool."
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:31 AM
 
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i think it's "uncool" to post this question about your sex life, on an internet forum.

And by the way, you state above, very clearly, that you have had sex.

YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN.


Period.
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:31 AM
 
Location: USA
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nah, you're still young grasshopper. Now if you're 40 and a virgin, that would be a cause for concern
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Old 11-21-2015, 07:39 AM
 
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You had sex- you're not a virgin. Being in love or not has nothing to do with it. At 22, you should be mature enough to not be worrying about this on the internet. Just go live your life.
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Old 11-21-2015, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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I know back in high school people were totally flabbergasted that u didn't do "it". I still kinda consider myself a virgin because I haven't had sex with a woman I love. I mean I did but she turned out to be a backstabbing beeyotch! so I still consider my cherry un-popped!

If you are 22, you probably now realize that a lot of the people who bragged in HS about having sex were just bragging and were actually virgins.


BTW, you had sex so you are not a virgin.
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Old 11-21-2015, 11:30 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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You're not a virgin. You don't get to have do-overs until you have sex with the right person and then consider it popped. A lot of us would probably consider the person we lost our virginity with to be a mistake, but there are no do-overs.

There's nothing wrong with not being in a meaningful sexual relationship when you're 22. You have years to find the right person to settle down with. There's also nothing wrong with getting some more (safe) practice in while you look for that right person though.
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Old 11-21-2015, 12:50 PM
 
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in addition to not being a virgin, you should not be worrying about what is "cool". Some people think you are not cool unless you use heroin. So don't judge yourself by other's standards as you are smart enough to know what is right and what is wrong. What you need to be concerned about is what is right for you. Now go out a find a good woman who you really love and who will not stab you in the back and don't be concerned about what others think.
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Old 11-21-2015, 02:04 PM
 
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Ask any 22 year-old single parent or a 22 and younger male paying child support. Don't live your life by what others do. I say forget cool. Make money.
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Old 11-21-2015, 02:53 PM
 
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OP, you've received some excellent advice here. You should given them all a rep and thank them for their time.
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