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Old 11-28-2015, 08:46 PM
 
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Well, that sucks you live by society's standards. I find life to be easier when you just live it your way. My mom started giving me crap about settling down and finding a man and setting me up. Well, guess who's never going to live in the same state as me again...
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Old 11-28-2015, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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BTW I got married a few days shy of my 35 birthday to a girl who just turned 33.

I have three kids, no fertility pills etc. The last kid we had I was about to turn 44 and my wife was 42, doctor said if we want my wife is good for 2-3 more if she wants. She is 50 and still fertile, has her period and could still get pregant.

It is a big fat myth about women and age for the most part. Look, I looked at my family tree. The folks in the 1800's were popping out 10-12 kids. No birth control and you had kids till you could no longer could have kids. My wife, my Mom, my Grandma and my GreatGrandma all had kids in their 40s. Heck the grandma and GreatGrandma did it in a hosue with no heat, running water or electric with no doctor present.

Dont worry.
Seriously?

No.
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Old 11-28-2015, 09:39 PM
 
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Hello,

My four year relationship (engaged for a few months) ended last month and ever since I've been feeling a bit down. I start wondering if I ever meet someone amazing again, or if I'll just have to stay alone or make compromises. I'm turning 28 in a few weeks and I feel incredibly old to be single again, may sound stupid but well. I'm not desperate for a relationship, right now I do not want to date anyone, but I guess if I don't want to be alone forever I should start trying in a few months or so.By the way, I'm female, fit and attractive, I'd say.
I'd like to hear two things from you guys:

1) Any of you have found the love of their life with 28 or older? I know there are people who did, but I would just like to hear some stories, maybe it makes me feel a bit more positive.

2) Men, how old are you and what age group are you dating? I'd prefer to find a guy 30-35, just because I think that group is more likely to want to settle down.


I guarantee you that if you take care of yourself like you say you do than you will have no problem finding a man. They will find you actually.




I'm 34 years old. Don't think i'm old at all. you're right in my prime age actually so my next question is where about do you live and do you want to go on a date? I'm playing..


Chances are you're not living in the sticks like I am lol The hills have eyes
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Old 11-28-2015, 09:40 PM
 
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oop I just read your post again.. you said meet someone amazing.. well with me there'd definitely be compromise lol
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Old 11-28-2015, 10:05 PM
 
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OP u should rush out and marry the next guy you see on the street and see how that turns out
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Old 11-29-2015, 05:21 AM
 
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Depends. I'm 29 and single. The 30-35 range is gonna be a crapshoot because dudes in that age range are more established and are more in demand than their early to mid twenties peers. I say its a crapshoot because some of them are going to be taking advantage of that newfound popularity due to their increased status, while some will be looking to find a woman to settle down with while building their "nest".
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Old 11-30-2015, 10:08 AM
 
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How I wish I could be 28 and single again. Where's that car from "Back To The Future?"

Only problem is with time travel you can't really go back and do it differently, it would injure The Universe.

But one can always dream ...
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