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No rush, I just know what I want. Dicorced because I was raised by fanatic Christians who made us marry. She cheated, I didn't want to take her back. She apologized many times. The girl I'm with now doesn't want to lose me, Im just ... The furthest thing from perfect like everyone I know ... Lol. I need to focus on myself more, it's relearning how to and actually enjoying it more than focusing on my relationship. Which again I've always categorized myself as a relationship type and enjoy it but clearly it hasn't been healthy for me.
Hey no one's perfect, don't worry about that part lol.. There's nothing wrong with wanting to spend time with the one you love. But if you're being too clingy, needy, & demanding of her time, that may be why she is feeling pressured + suggested a break. Thing is, she has obligations (legal or otherwise) that come before you. That doesn't mean she isn't chosing you. They are unavoidable obstacles on her path. *Life is full of these things, so learn to work around them. * I think if you really love this girl, stick with her and work as a team- bc that's what a relationship is. ~ I agree w/ not lending out your car while "on a break" though. In or out, there is no inbetween...
Knowing her legal issues isn't relevant to my questions. I'm not gallivanting with anything, I stated my piece and just looking for someone who may have gone through something similar and how did they "fix" it. Also just some words of encouragement/ideas to help. I know I need my own self worth. Idk where I gave it away.
How you "fix" this is get rid of the drama princess so she can grow up and learn how to take care of her own issues herself.
It may also be that in your obsessive desire for a relationship you chose someone dependent on you in an effort to keep her. Afterall, how can someone who "needs" you leave you...?
It may also be that in your obsessive desire for a relationship you chose someone dependent on you in an effort to keep her. Afterall, how can someone who "needs" you leave you...?
This! OP, you've already had a discussion about breaking up & stayed together because she needed the car? So the only reason she is still around is coz of the car!why are you tolerating this? TBH your whole story confuses me.
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