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Old 12-01-2015, 05:59 PM
 
Location: Pa
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The green kinds are usually pretty good though. That definitely won't work. If anything it will make it worse. Terrible advice.
Tell her you are the candy that was spit out and is only eaten by dogs.
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Here's how you can "recover" from that faux pas: when/if she asks you about it, just say "Oh, that was you?".
This will be perfect. Kill two birds with one stone.
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:00 PM
 
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Ahh here we go. The typical goody goodies. The knight in shining armor. Come on now. I've never let it be known I wanted commitment. It was a damn slip up! I had no idea she was gonna eat it up like that. Give me a break.
She obviously believes you have something special between you so why not be honest & tell her the truth. No one likes being used. The longer you let this go on, the more hurt she will feel. Have a heart!
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:02 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Ahh here we go. The typical goody goodies. The knight in shining armor. Come on now. I've never let it be known I wanted commitment. It was a damn slip up! I had no idea she was gonna eat it up like that. Give me a break.
It's not because of the mistake that some are giving you a hard time. It's because you want a way out that will allow you to continue using her for your entertainment. There is no way out that will preserve your dignity and allow you to continue business as usual with this woman.

Just tell her you're not good enough for her, sound pained, and tell her you have to "break up" with her, because she doesn't know the real you, you're a jerk underneath it all and you don't deserve her. Oh, the anguish of it all!
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:04 PM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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Really, though, she may be the one who slipped up by developing feelings for you. How about you "give her a break", and say in clear terms that you don't and you won't, and then cut her loose. That would be the way to salvage things, like your integrity, her feelings, that silly stuff.
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:08 PM
 
Location: The city of champions
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Tell her you are the candy that was spit out and is only eaten by dogs.

That's still not even all that bad. Have you ever tasted the dog pastries and candy? Those are actually really good and perfectly edible for humans. The only difference is they don't use real chocolate.


That was a very nice attempt but I suggest you try again.
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:09 PM
 
Location: The city of champions
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It's not because of the mistake that some are giving you a hard time. It's because you want a way out that will allow you to continue using her for your entertainment. There is no way out that will preserve your dignity and allow you to continue business as usual with this woman.

Just tell her you're not good enough for her, sound pained, and tell her you have to "break up" with her, because she doesn't know the real you, you're a jerk underneath it all and you don't deserve her. Oh, the anguish of it all!


You may be right. Damn. Deep down I kinda do wish I could develop feelings but I don't think I can anymore. No matter how hard I tried. Shame. We had some good times together but I suppose this is how it has to be. Oh well.
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:11 PM
 
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I have nothing. Except this song:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OHs5cg5RIu8
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Pa
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That's still not even all that bad. Have you ever tasted the dog pastries and candy? Those are actually really good and perfectly edible for humans. The only difference is they don't use real chocolate.


That was a very nice attempt but I suggest you try again.
Lol! Nevermind.
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Old 12-01-2015, 06:13 PM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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I'm seeing several women but one in particular is really good in bed. The passion is intense. Usually I'm more of a **** talker in bed but in this particular moment she said "I love you" and I said it back. Oh damn....I've never had a slip up like that and she completely ate it up. I really like spending time with her but she is completely sprung.


Any advice on damage control? I definitely do not feel the same way but I don't want to lose out on more fun with her. I know this won't end well though. Sucks.


My advice is not forum appropriate, but basically tell her you were referring to something else when you said you 'l-word' her.
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