Would you want to be in a relationship with a woman who was very quiet? (date, women)
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The real question is, would you? Who cares what anyone else thinks? Are the silences awkward? Do you prefer talkative women?
I'm a woman myself & only interested in men. So, the correct question to ask is "Do you prefer talkative men". Being a very quiet person, I prefer to be with a man that talks more than I do but not excessively talking my ear off.
I think opposites balance eachother out here. I actually can't think of one couple where there wasn't a more quiet partner and a more talkative partner.
I'm very quiet most of the time, so I tend to date guys who are more chatty than I am. However, there's a limit to my tolerance of said chattiness. Too much can be exhausting!
If that was her personality, would you want to be in a relationship with her? Someone that doesn't have much to say but is happy with who she is.
I'm less social and talkative than the average person, so I prefer women who are a little more on the outgoing/social side than I (which is not difficult to find, now that I live in NYC).
In my case, I am a little hesitant to date girls who are very quiet or reserved, as that persona does not add much to or complement mine very well. Here's my take when applied to my current situation: if I am seeking a quiet night in spent watching TV (or on these forums, etc.), that's an option that I already have (in spades), so I'm less likely to actively seek out a woman who is (generally) looking for the same. I've been to many of the more popular lounges, etc. by myself and would be interested in the right woman joining me at such places, but I haven't fund her yet.
If you're more of the quiet and reserved type, I wouldn't recommend a woman with these traits.
Less talkative is fine so long as she tells me her feelings and doesn't let negative emotions build up inside her in which she becomes a giant volcano of negative emotion. Less talkative and loves Dream Theater? Now you have my attention
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