Relationship Help! Need guy perspectives.

[Beautiful Disaster]

Originally Posted by GKelly

If he's not giving you the attention you need, you're probably never going to get it. Your instinct was probably right but breaking up is hard so that's probably why you went back. Just trust your instincts and move on.

When we are together...everything is perfect. I recently moved an 1hr or so away and thats where it started. He shows me attention but I let outside issues affect my relationship by being needy.

[rbohm]

Originally Posted by Beautiful Disaster

When we are together...everything is perfect. I recently moved an 1hr or so away and thats where it started. He shows me attention but I let outside issues affect my relationship by being needy.

you are starting to grow up already. you recognize that the issues in this case is your fault.

[usamathman]

Congrats on being one of the few women to have ever been with a real man.


This guy stuck by his principles.


You wanted out and he gave you exactly what you wanted.


I personally would move on.


If he is anything like the guys I know are out there.....your behavior has caused him to lose all respect for you.


He may take you back but the it is likely that the most you will get from him is some sex.


Chances of going back to a normal committed relationship with this guy are slim to none.


Apologize to the guy if you feel the need. But move on and learn from your experience.

[Beautiful Disaster]

Thanks

[jjrose]

You played games, and lost. Maybe next time you are in a relationship you will act like an adult and not a child.

If you need something in a relationship you use your words like a big girl. It's called communication, something adults do in a relationship.

[QuestOfTruth]

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.