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Old 12-26-2015, 08:25 AM
 
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These guys who start squealing with homophobic distress at the very mention of pegging are always hilarious.

To answer the OP, I tend to use the soft sell. Talking about it in advance and maybe sharing some well-written articles on the subject.
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Old 12-26-2015, 08:36 AM
 
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These guys who start squealing with homophobic distress at the very mention of pegging are always hilarious.

To answer the OP, I tend to use the soft sell. Talking about it in advance and maybe sharing some well-written articles on the subject.
I wouldn't call it 'homophobic distress" but I see getting probed as a submissive effeminate position to be in. Not a position I want to put myself in. I rest my case on pegging lol


So I'm a proponent of the soft sell with discussing kinks
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Old 12-26-2015, 08:38 AM
 
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I don't think most heterosexual men are open to pegging.

Why was pegging the first kink mentioned in the thread?
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Old 12-26-2015, 08:59 AM
 
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I wouldn't call it 'homophobic distress" but I see getting probed as a submissive effeminate position to be in. Not a position I want to put myself in. I rest my case on pegging lol


So I'm a proponent of the soft sell with discussing kinks
What's wrong with that though? You make it sound like a bad thing. Are women somehow "less than" because they receive?
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Old 12-26-2015, 09:18 AM
 
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Women don't have prostates. Anal sex is far more pleasurable for men than women, yet it always seems the guys talking the women into it rather than the other way around. It makes no sense to me. Anal is naturally a GUY thing. I don't know why women would be interested in it at all.
I don't see why anyone would be interested, but I had some traumatic experiences with suppositories when I was a kid so I cannot associate having something stuck up my butt with pleasure. On the contrary, I was scarred for life by it.
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Old 12-26-2015, 09:30 AM
 
Location: San Diego
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These guys who start squealing with homophobic distress at the very mention of pegging are always hilarious.

To answer the OP, I tend to use the soft sell. Talking about it in advance and maybe sharing some well-written articles on the subject.
"squealing with homosexual delight!" fixed.
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Old 12-26-2015, 09:36 AM
 
Location: SW Ohio
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Yep ... you learn sumptin new everyday.
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Old 12-26-2015, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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When looking for a mate how do you bring up the subject of kinks?

Is in the heat of battle or the soft sell over some soft serve during the dating process?

I once dated a gal for a a few months that wanted to peg me, but did the hard sell in the heat of battle.

If I had known that earlier I would have bailed early


I don't know what "peg me" means, but it don't sound good. lol. I'm not even going to look it up. Nope, I think by the sound of it that I know what it means. Again, not good. Either or I would be afraid.
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Old 12-26-2015, 09:39 AM
 
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It feels pretty good if done right. Some men may think of prison so they may not want it. But I think most men wouldn't mind having their salads tossed.
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Old 12-26-2015, 05:11 PM
 
Location: Louisville KY
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Your unstimulated prostate is disappointed in you. Why are some men so adamantly against something that they know will feel amazing if they try it?
Afraid of being gay...
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