The hard or soft sell on kinks (dating, men, love)

[Fargobound]

When looking for a mate how do you bring up the subject of kinks?

Is in the heat of battle or the soft sell over some soft serve during the dating process?

I once dated a gal for a a few months that wanted to peg me, but did the hard sell in the heat of battle.

If I had known that earlier I would have bailed early

[BirdieBelle]

Some people think you're easier to convince if you're already naked.

[MoonBeam33]

BEFORE sex happens. Always. Give them a chance to decide if they even want to go there before sex is on the table. Anything else is cowardly and immature.

[Mikelee81]

It's always fun when you don't know a word so you look it up with google.


Here is what came up for pegging


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice)


Love the pic. I'd be certainly cool with discussing this way early on in the dating process lol.


check please

[koeken]

Originally Posted by Fargobound

When looking for a mate how do you bring up the subject of kinks?

Is in the heat of battle or the soft sell over some soft serve during the dating process?

I once dated a gal for a a few months that wanted to peg me, but did the hard sell in the heat of battle.

If I had known that earlier I would have bailed early

LOL

I would have to ask what it means and after listening to the explanation I would run, far away!

[funymann]

Originally Posted by Fargobound

When looking for a mate how do you bring up the subject of kinks?

Is in the heat of battle or the soft sell over some soft serve during the dating process?

I once dated a gal for a a few months that wanted to peg me, but did the hard sell in the heat of battle.

If I had known that earlier I would have bailed early

This is lingo that is hard for me to understand.

I looked up pegging and threw up in my mouth. Thanks.

[ellie]

Discuss it early on but not on the first date. Usually there's a point in the first steamy months of a relationship where people tend to feel adventurous. Go to a store and shop together. It's supposed to be fun.

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by funymann

This is lingo that is hard for me to understand.

I looked up pegging and threw up in my mouth. Thanks.

Your unstimulated prostate is disappointed in you. Why are some men so adamantly against something that they know will feel amazing if they try it?

[the minx]

I guess I'm a pervert for knowing what that word means. Hmm.

In my relationships, we've always had "likes and dislikes" conversations. Just happens organically.

[Prince_Frog]

Pegging? I know what that is. Nope.