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Separate bedrooms would provide a slight change of scenery, no?
Lol, we'd end up using my room everytime because he's so prone to clutter. The memories of his disgraceful bachelor pad are still too fresh. Well, at least I'd knew he wasnt having any other girls over; not too many would put up with having to fold laundry and run a vacuum just to find a place to sit.
My husband and I have separate blankets. It took a long time to realize that we should just have separate blankets and it stopped a lot of strife. He would always pull the blankets off my feet! And I like to bunch up the side of the blanket and sleep on top of it.
I'd love to have a math cave; quiet, clutter-free, minimal furnishings (oversized chair, side table, bookshelves), wood paneling would be nice. But separate bedrooms? Nah. Who would I spoon with? Although it would be funny to ask "Your place or mine" lol.
Lucy and Ricardo slept in separate beds. So did their downstairs neighbors Ethel and Fred Mertz. A lot of marriages were saved by separate sleeping arrangements. I always said if I got married I would prefer separate bedrooms.
Pretend people on the idiot-box slept in separate beds because the morality police didn't want you getting the idea that anyone - even married couples - had sex more than the number of times required to produce offspring.
Pretend people on the idiot-box slept in separate beds because the morality police didn't want you getting the idea that anyone - even married couples - had sex more than the number of times required to produce offspring.
Yup! The morality police also kept bathrooms from being shown on the idiot box as well. We can thank Norman Lear for breaking down that barrier.
Seems like younger couples don't sleep apart...older ones do...implying to me that sleep is more important than sex at that point?
Implying that the older one gets, the more likely it is that one snores, has to get up in the middle of the night to pee, has insomnia, has back or joint issues that either require freedom to stretch out or a different mattress than the partner, or, if female, has hot flashes. In short, the older one gets, the more likely it is that one's own sleep becomes disrupted, thus disrupting the partner's sleep. Well-being comes first, and if you're well-rested you'll be more amenable to sex.
Since my wife and I have moved into separate bedrooms our marriage has improved 100% percent. We have our own space and can go to sleep on our own schedule. She is a night owl and I go to bed at 10 AM. I wake early and she likes to sleep in.
My man cave in the basement of our home is great too. It gives me a space to relax and be alone. I like my space! My wife agrees. Can you relate?
This is such a good idea that I don;t understand why more people are doing it.
I couldn't see sleeping in separate beds or rooms. I would want to sleep in the same bed with my husband, cuddle with him and make love during the night.
I couldn't see sleeping in separate beds or rooms. I would want to sleep in the same bed with my husband, cuddle with him and make love during the night.
So would I
But again in fairness he has said his marriage has improved and that's the main thing so FairPlay to him
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