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Isn't that why the catcher and pitcher are always making those gestures?
LOL now we know!!!
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Ok, your examples made me laugh out loud, Lol. Especially, the legs spread open facing the woman (here it is, baby) and arms behind his head stretching (come and get it) Hehe
I'm going to try that next time I see a woman I'm attracted to sitting close to me
Husbands and wives could better spend their time trying to solve the marital issues that so often lead to cheating instead of trying to find out if their partner is cheating.
Well, from what you say, he's giving the signs of sexual attraction, yes. Of course, that doesn't necessarily mean that this woman is going to agree to have an affair with a married man. So is he about to cheat with her specifically? That doesn't just depend upon him.
However, if his eye is wandering in general, that could point to a bigger problem. The wife needs to address THAT, not just this one woman specifically. If the guy is "wandering," this one woman saying "no" won't keep him from moving along to the next woman.
As far as clear signs...people are all different. This guy from what you describe is showing signs of interest in someone else, yes. Who knows whether he'd actually proposition her?
Have they tried couples counseling?
Yes, I was thinking the same thing! And no, no couples counseling. I think she mentioned this to him before, but he wasn't really happy with the idea as he feels they cannot afford it at this time (they've been struggling financially). I've told her that it is only a matter of time before he should agree and find ways to make the effort if this is what they really need in order to make things work.
Husbands and wives could better spend their time trying to solve the marital issues that so often lead to cheating instead of trying to find out if their partner is cheating.
She can ask but the answer won't necessarily reflect the truth of the situation. Plenty of people with good, active sex lives stray from their partners/spouses. Cheating is not always about the sex. A person can cheat to feel attractive and sexy again or to "punish" their spouse/partner for whatever reason that makes them feel justified, or because they are feeling lonely and unappreciated, or because they want to get out of a relationship and this is just the ticket, or because the sky is blue and it's Tuesday and cheating is as natural as breathing.
Cheaters cheat. Sex may be the goal but is rarely the entire reason.
Interesting point! From what she has mentioned, it seems like they do have sex on a regular basis. Not sure about how often, etc.
Not that I know of, LOL, but I don't know everything there is to know about body language.
I do know that many men will try to "look bigger" when posturing if they're sexually interested. Examples are spreading one's legs when sitting down, stretching arms behind head with elbows sticking out, sitting up straighter with chest somewhat out, etc.
And men and women alike will generally turn the lower part of the body toward the party in which they are interested. So, even if I had my head turned to look at a friend with whom I was talking, if I had my knees pointed at you that could indicate interest (in combination with other factors, obviously, I mean legs have to go somewhere, LOL).
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