I Pushed Him, He Broke Up With Me, I Still Love Him…How to get him back?

[westcoast_CA]

Dudette OP, it's like this, he is done. Why waste time worrying about it? You are too young for serious relationships. Enjoy life for a bit and then find someone else.

Best wishes

[cfbs2691]

Originally Posted by IntentionsRGood

This thing we call love is really just intense feelings caused by a chemical reaction in the brain. When we meet someone who sparks our interest, a strong chemical reaction forms in our brains. We refer to this as having "chemistry" for the other person.

This chemistry is very intense initially. It clouds our judgment by not allowing us to see the other person's flaws. You are deaf and blind to everything as you are swept up in the euphoria. It's like being on a roller coaster ride together. He can do no wrong. He is "perfect" in your eyes. You are "drunk in love."

Eventually the intensity fades as the brain chemicals are reabsorbed. Once the intensity fades, everything comes into focus and he sees your flaws for the 1st time.

To answer your question, you never were in love. You shared intense feelings for each other. But his feelings for you have faded. You should move on.

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