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Old 12-30-2015, 11:14 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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So, springboarding from, is it okay to tease a man:

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lly-tease.html



Let's turn this around....what about if a guy gets a woman close during sex and then either loses it or is a bit premature. Is that okay? Should he offer to "help her out"? Or is she just SOL, on her own? What is his responsibility? Discuss...
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Old 12-30-2015, 11:16 AM
 
Location: Pa
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So, springboarding from, is it okay to tease a man:

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lly-tease.html



Let's turn this around....what about if a guy gets a woman close during sex and then either loses it or is a bit premature. Is that okay? Should he offer to "help her out"? Or is she just SOL, on her own? What is his responsibility? Discuss...
Uh wut?
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Old 12-30-2015, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Now you're taking it to a whole different place between two people who are actually having sex with each other, when in that other thread it was about everything from women wearing sexy clothes, to women rubbing up on dudes getting them worked up and then not following it with sexytime.


But in any event, I'd still say there's a lot of good in being able to communicate with your partner. I've only had one lover who didn't want to help me get there after he did and I didn't, and he was a bad experience and very selfish in many other ways, too. The good ones, understand that sex encompasses many acts and the fun can continue even if one or both of us "finishes."
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Old 12-30-2015, 11:52 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I don't think that works because then the woman will find another guy.
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Old 12-30-2015, 11:56 AM
 
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I think when women complain about men "leading them on" it's generally more on an emotional level.

No, not in every case and blah blah disclaimer disclaimer.
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Old 12-30-2015, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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So, springboarding from, is it okay to tease a man:

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lly-tease.html



Let's turn this around....what about if a guy gets a woman close during sex and then either loses it or is a bit premature. Is that okay? Should he offer to "help her out"? Or is she just SOL, on her own? What is his responsibility? Discuss...


As Spork said -- different kettle of fish.


But addressing your question directly:


Losing it or shooting prematurely, leaving a woman unsatisfied, is unfortunate but not intentional. Blowing her off after that, NOT taking care to finish the job in ways I shan't mention here because they're not PG-13 and I'm not even sure how threads mentioning sex make any headway (see what I did there again?) anyway -- that's plain rude and disdainful, definitely in poor taste and showing a lack of regard.
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Old 12-30-2015, 04:30 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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So, springboarding from, is it okay to tease a man:

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lly-tease.html



Let's turn this around....what about if a guy gets a woman close during sex and then either loses it or is a bit premature. Is that okay? Should he offer to "help her out"? Or is she just SOL, on her own? What is his responsibility? Discuss...
To answer the question in hand yes I would and do if I'm not able ( been out drinking all night/ knackered from work etc ) as its rude not to

But as for men teasing in general yes we can do it but in the end it's up to the lady to take the bait or not
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Old 12-30-2015, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Let's turn this around....what about if a guy gets a woman close during sex and then either loses it or is a bit premature. Is that okay? Should he offer to "help her out"? Or is she just SOL, on her own? What is his responsibility? Discuss...
Homeboi better get down and start chomp'n
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Old 01-02-2016, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Buy her presents.
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Old 01-02-2016, 09:18 PM
 
Location: In the desert, by the mirage.
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To answer the question in hand yes I would and do if I'm not able ( been out drinking all night/ knackered from work etc ) as its rude not to

But as for men teasing in general yes we can do it but in the end it's up to the lady to take the bait or not
Maybe it's lack of sleep, coffee or plain o' sense, but I started to snicker like a mere juvenile when I read "in hand"

To the OP: Leaving a damsel like that is not cool. If I were in that situation, I would be more than making up for it. You'd have to beg me to stop.

Then, like Raena suggested, I'd buy you presents Wouldn't want you spouting off about my negligent discharge.
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