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I am female. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. He was trying to send me an email when we were at home but it wouldn't send. He gave me his phone and told me to try and make it work. He was going to grab a quick shower. I've never doubted his faithfulness. Never had a reason not to. We've been very happy together. First year is always great right! Well, I went into the sent folder to see if it actually did go through. Right under the one to me put me in shock!! The subject was Cute Little ****** Looking To Get Used. (2 months prior)He sent it to a personal ad on craigslist men seeking men. It contained...new to this dont have much time but would really like to try something new so get back to me asap. Wtf?? I looked at the date and realized I was working that night and he only had 3 hours till i got home. I scrolled further down and found more from the year before we got together. He wasn't new to that! It was full of craigslist ads. To men and women. I dont know if he actually went through with any of them. I searched through his inbox and found nude pics a girl had sent him 7 months ago. Found a bunch of zoosk dating site emails. And multiple emails from men and women froms the craigslist ads from before we were together. Im in shock and the stress is eating at me. I haven't said anything to him. But to me this is cheating. Hitting up someone for sex regardless of whether he acted on it or not. I dont know what to do. Every time we have sex I keep picturing him with a man. Its awful. Please send me some good advice.
Is he on drugs? A legit question btw
I am truly sorry...
I went through something similiar with my ex..
Found out during the 2 years we were together that he was on CL..I found it by looking on his phone I felt something was up..
And sure enough there were responses to ads..propositioning women to have sex but the replies from these "Women?" were actually hookers advertising...
trying to be a part of a threesome...his response? That I should trust him and he left it there for me to find?
Then a woman called him and he claimed he didnt know her? Come to find out he fixed her car 4x in the year and a half that I knew him? But he knew her brother and it made it ok..this woman stated that they were friends? And he scarcely knew her brother?
I found porn dvds hidden in the garage when he asked me to move in along with a meth pipe?
He his it well I wil tell you that..
RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN
I am female. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. He was trying to send me an email when we were at home but it wouldn't send. He gave me his phone and told me to try and make it work. He was going to grab a quick shower. I've never doubted his faithfulness. Never had a reason not to. We've been very happy together. First year is always great right! Well, I went into the sent folder to see if it actually did go through. Right under the one to me put me in shock!! The subject was Cute Little ****** Looking To Get Used. (2 months prior)He sent it to a personal ad on craigslist men seeking men. It contained...new to this dont have much time but would really like to try something new so get back to me asap. Wtf?? I looked at the date and realized I was working that night and he only had 3 hours till i got home. I scrolled further down and found more from the year before we got together. He wasn't new to that! It was full of craigslist ads. To men and women. I dont know if he actually went through with any of them. I searched through his inbox and found nude pics a girl had sent him 7 months ago. Found a bunch of zoosk dating site emails. And multiple emails from men and women froms the craigslist ads from before we were together. Im in shock and the stress is eating at me. I haven't said anything to him. But to me this is cheating. Hitting up someone for sex regardless of whether he acted on it or not. I dont know what to do. Every time we have sex I keep picturing him with a man. Its awful. Please send me some good advice.
Please get tested. Get away from him. He's bad news. It doesn't matter if he went through with his fantasies or not, get out of there asap. He has no real emotional attachment to you, but is probably battling a sex addiction. So he cannot bond to anyone. No one emails strangers for sex, it's just dangerous and crazy. I am so sorry this happened to you, (and him). I wish you both the best. Please keep yourself healthy and not risk this danger to your health through being involved with this person. He is sick. Get tested for STDs very soon
I am female. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. He was trying to send me an email when we were at home but it wouldn't send. He gave me his phone and told me to try and make it work. He was going to grab a quick shower. I've never doubted his faithfulness. Never had a reason not to. We've been very happy together. First year is always great right! Well, I went into the sent folder to see if it actually did go through. Right under the one to me put me in shock!! The subject was Cute Little ****** Looking To Get Used. (2 months prior)He sent it to a personal ad on craigslist men seeking men. It contained...new to this dont have much time but would really like to try something new so get back to me asap. Wtf?? I looked at the date and realized I was working that night and he only had 3 hours till i got home. I scrolled further down and found more from the year before we got together. He wasn't new to that! It was full of craigslist ads. To men and women. I dont know if he actually went through with any of them. I searched through his inbox and found nude pics a girl had sent him 7 months ago. Found a bunch of zoosk dating site emails. And multiple emails from men and women froms the craigslist ads from before we were together. Im in shock and the stress is eating at me. I haven't said anything to him. But to me this is cheating. Hitting up someone for sex regardless of whether he acted on it or not. I dont know what to do. Every time we have sex I keep picturing him with a man. Its awful. Please send me some good advice.
I am female. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. He was trying to send me an email when we were at home but it wouldn't send. He gave me his phone and told me to try and make it work. He was going to grab a quick shower. I've never doubted his faithfulness. Never had a reason not to. We've been very happy together. First year is always great right! Well, I went into the sent folder to see if it actually did go through. Right under the one to me put me in shock!! The subject was Cute Little ****** Looking To Get Used. (2 months prior)He sent it to a personal ad on craigslist men seeking men. It contained...new to this dont have much time but would really like to try something new so get back to me asap. Wtf?? I looked at the date and realized I was working that night and he only had 3 hours till i got home. I scrolled further down and found more from the year before we got together. He wasn't new to that! It was full of craigslist ads. To men and women. I dont know if he actually went through with any of them. I searched through his inbox and found nude pics a girl had sent him 7 months ago. Found a bunch of zoosk dating site emails. And multiple emails from men and women froms the craigslist ads from before we were together. Im in shock and the stress is eating at me. I haven't said anything to him. But to me this is cheating. Hitting up someone for sex regardless of whether he acted on it or not. I dont know what to do. Every time we have sex I keep picturing him with a man. Its awful. Please send me some good advice.
Whats so wrong with confronting him with this and talking about it?
Run and get tested for an STD. Then find a polite way to end this relationship. He doesn't deserve you.
I agree with this assessment. All I can say here is EWWW
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