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I said hi to her and tried to engage her a bit, she wanted absolutely nothing to do with me. I was being my normal friendly self.
It was particularly disheartening because she was a Latina. Hispanic people always say I'm gorgeous in real life (they all think I'm from Spain or Puerto Rico)
So anyhoo.
How does the above example fit into all this "I'm really pretty much amazing IRL compared to just photos" stuff?
How does the above example fit into all this "I'm really pretty much amazing IRL compared to just photos" stuff?
Are you actually a woman or a gay man? Very surprised to see a woman who likes a guy that beefy
google instagram lazar angelov. You're welcome. He's a cool dude, with an ideal physique and I like his winning attitude. Hopefully I can get that big one day
How does the above example fit into all this "I'm really pretty much amazing IRL compared to just photos" stuff?
I will say this, I'm very curious to see how well I do if I actually get some dates. I think I will dominate but if I get dates and the women aren't interested, then I REALLY have to go back to square one
I just need some dates, I don't care how I go about getting them
I can be very charismatic in an isolated 1 on 1 situation like a date and I look very good in real life, I just don't get any opportunities
I only read these 2 posts. Timberline is right. Just as you see the potential of being able to narrow possibilities down to women with the traits you're looking for, those women have the same hope, and you'd be deceiving them. No good.
I only read these 2 posts. Timberline is right. Just as you see the potential of being able to narrow possibilities down to women with the traits you're looking for, those women have the same hope, and you'd be deceiving them. No good.
being an entertaining writer shouldn't be an important trait to dating. It is important because women get 58320528502353825025802582350 messages a day so they have to find every way imaginable to disqualify all the men who hit on them.
I'm trying to find a girlfriend, not trying to ace an English writing class.
The important traits should be
- is he/she nice/pleasant/friendly (which I am)
- is he/she intelligent/successful/ambitious (absolutely)
- is he/she a good person (loyal, caring, unselfish, supportive. etc....)
- is he/she attractive (which I believe i am)
Women are so ridiculous with these requirements that a man be a funny/entertaining writer online. What the hell does that have to do with someone being a good dating partner?
being an entertaining writer shouldn't be an important trait to dating. It is important because women get 58320528502353825025802582350 messages a day so they have to find every way imaginable to disqualify all the men who hit on them.
I'm trying to find a girlfriend, not trying to ace an English writing class.
The important traits should be
- is he/she nice/pleasant/friendly (which I am)
- is he/she intelligent/successful/ambitious (absolutely)
- is he/she a good person (loyal, caring, unselfish, supportive. etc....)
- is he/she attractive (which I believe i am)
Women are so ridiculous with these requirements that a man be a funny/entertaining writer online. What the hell does that have to do with someone being a good dating partner?
You don't appear to be an inept writer. I think that some women do seem to get a little demanding on line, but who tf wants to date a woman who makes you jump through grammatical and stylistic hoops to get her attention.
I assume that you read women's profiles to learn something about them. Interests, life experiences, that sort of thing. Write a profile that lets women see the same things about you. Post some pictures that show you doing the things you're interested in, where that makes sense.
A man or woman who is a great writer can use that genuine talent as a tool to attract people. However, a modestly skilled writer who is pleasant, successful, loyal and attractive, has a lot going for him or her. Show that.
You don't appear to be an inept writer. I think that some women do seem to get a little demanding on line, but who tf wants to date a woman who makes you jump through grammatical and stylistic hoops to get her attention.
I can write with perfect syntax and grammar but that's not what women want online. Women want the dancing clown who writes all kinds of nonsense to entertain.
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I assume that you read women's profiles to learn something about them. Interests, life experiences, that sort of thing. Write a profile that lets women see the same things about you. Post some pictures that show you doing the things you're interested in, where that makes sense.
That's what every other guy online does and they mostly get ignored in favor of the guy who can message something ridiculous and off the wall.
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