If You Think Someone Is Cheating On You (Latin, partner, betrayed)

[CinnaBunney]

If you think someone is cheating on you, why do you look for evidence? Isn't your gut feeling good enough?

[JasperJade]

Denial and hoping against hope that they're wrong.

[Charles22]

There is a huge class of people who assume their faithful partner is cheating.

[NewYorker11356]

Originally Posted by CinnaBunney

If you think someone is cheating on you, why do you look for evidence? Isn't your gut feeling good enough?

Because actual evidence and a gut feeling are NOT the same thing. Everyone can assume something, but without evidence, it's all moot.

[froglipz]

Originally Posted by CinnaBunney

If you think someone is cheating on you, why do you look for evidence? Isn't your gut feeling good enough?

Without trust you have NO real relationship anyway. Move on!

[CinnaBunney]

Originally Posted by froglipz

Without trust you have NO real relationship anyway. Move on!

True.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by CinnaBunney

If you think someone is cheating on you, why do you look for evidence? Isn't your gut feeling good enough?

Nope I won't snoop,

If I feeling strongly about it enough to have a gut feeling about it I would confront them and ask as the eyes never lie

[CinnaBunney]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

Nope I won't snoop,

If I feeling strongly about it enough to have a gut feeling about it I would confront them and ask as the eyes never lie

What do you see in their eyes that reveals their deception?

[hawaiiancoconut]

In the past, I was aware of suspicious activity , but never looked for evidence. I figure at that point, my partner has already cheated (or in the process) and there's nothing I could do to stop it. Moreover, I wouldn't stop it, and just let it play out, until it gotten to the point that my partner will confront me or if i catch them red handed.

A partner that is contemplating on cheating, is a partner that has already betrayed me, in my book.

Again, Ive trumpeted this many times on here: If someone is unhappy, grow a spine and speak the fk up and resolve it.

Cheating isn't going to fix a personal issue or a damn thing in a relationship.

[grmi66]

The red flags seem to become apparent AFTER you break up. Once I broke up with my GF all of the weird phone calls, texts at odd hours and last minute after work meetings with "co-workers" made a lot more sense.