Date was rude to waitress. (dating, girl, friend, couple)
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So a girl I have been seeing we have gone on 3 dates now, I am 29 she is 28. Met her through a mutual friend and we get along well but on our last date she did something that made me question her character.
We went to Chili's and it was very busy, after about 10 minutes our server came and she (girl I am dating) said "About time you got here!" in a kind of mean tone. The server she apologized but my date wasn't satisfied and said she better do a better job or she'll talk to her manager. Again the server apologized and took our order and brought us appetizers which we went through we wanted some more and we had gotten finished with our appetizers for about 5 minutes when my date said "The servers here are useless, they should pay more attention" and got up and went looking for our server and I guess wasn't nice to her when she got back she looked like she got chewed out but was still nice.
We did get our food and that was fine and when the server asked us if we wanted any desert my date quips "If we wanted desert don't you think we'd have asked?". When we were about to leave I put down a $10 because I thought she did good but my date saw it and she said she doesn't deserve a tip for bad service.
The whole thing seemed bizarre but what do you think?
Do you really have to ask, OP? Is this the kind of person you want to spend more of your precious time with? Do you want to be treated to any more scenes like that?
If you stop seeing her, you should tell her why. To give her some feedback that might be food for thought for her. She needs a reality check, that her behavior isn't acceptable.
I would drop her, but I question your ability to choose dates.
Why was a 3rd date a dinner date? You should still be doing some sort of activity dates, or a home dinner date, not a restaurant dinner date. Also, a chain restaurant is not a good choice if you are choosing to go the dinner date route.
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