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I think some posters are getting crossed up here. The FWB arrangement is not the problem. Both the OP and her meathead pal knew what they wanted and what they were getting into. The issue is this dude pretends to be a charming gentleman to get what he wants then when he felt comfortable enough around the OP he let his inner fratbro come out.
Not every man who gets casual sex is makes such remarks about women or feels that way about women.
My comments were responding to a poster that stated that women purposely play the waiting game so they don't get their feelings hurt. But this thread isn't about that really. Even if she wasn't sleeping with this dude and was just a friend, his comments would still be disrespectful nonetheless. That is what this is really about.
I think some posters are getting crossed up here. The FWB arrangement is not the problem. Both the OP and her meathead pal knew what they wanted and what they were getting into. The issue is this dude pretends to be a charming gentleman to get what he wants then when he felt comfortable enough around the OP he let his inner fratbro come out.
Not every man who gets casual sex is makes such remarks about women or feels that way about women.
My comments were responding to a poster that stated that women purposely play the waiting game so they don't get their feelings hurt. But this thread isn't about that really. Even if she wasn't sleeping with this dude and was just a friend, his comments would still be disrespectful nonetheless. That is what this is really about.
I think some posters are getting crossed up here. The FWB arrangement is not the problem. Both the OP and her meathead pal knew what they wanted and what they were getting into. The issue is this dude pretends to be a charming gentleman to get what he wants then when he felt comfortable enough around the OP he let his inner fratbro come out.
Not every man who gets casual sex is makes such remarks about women or feels that way about women.
My comments were responding to a poster that stated that women purposely play the waiting game so they don't get their feelings hurt. But this thread isn't about that really. Even if she wasn't sleeping with this dude and was just a friend, his comments would still be disrespectful nonetheless. That is what this is really about.
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I was looking for a good time & not much in return, maybe a cool/hot friend. My point was, wether sex was involved or not, friends or not, it's not how any man should speak to a woman.
I told him to save that talk for his buddies, he obviously learnt it from some guy? Maybe a relative or a college buddy? He's in a major heartbreak situation at the moment, his first and only love left him for another guy which he talked over and over and over about. We even spent an hour going through his exs social media accounts, which were all about her in the arms of some new guy. Hopefully he'll find his way.
All this talk for what amounts to "if you don't like them don't hang out with them"
Also, I will add just becuase you make another aware of what you want, it doesn't negate your responsibility in putting yourself in to bad places with them.
If you have knowledge that changes the dynamics of your relations to someone and you refuse to acknowledge it becuase it goes against your purpose for being involved with them....you're asking for all the trouble being purposfully ignorant brings your way.
His ex did a major heartbreak on him, she was actually pregnant and wanted to get married he was in love and warmed to the idea. Then one day they had a fight and she got an abortion without his knowledge. Then she ran into the arms of another guy so yeah he hates women at the moment.
His ex did a major heartbreak on him, she was actually pregnant and wanted to get married he was in love and warmed to the idea. Then one day they had a fight and she got an abortion without his knowledge. Then she ran into the arms of another guy so yeah he hates women at the moment.
Ok so it's up to you whether you want to be around that.
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