How to spot who only want sex immediately? (men, young, couple)
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Originally Posted by GKelly
If a guy wants a relationship he'll usually ask you out during the day time for brunch/coffee/lunch etc.
I want a relationship and never do this. Most people don't want to meet during Sat or Sunday days for first meetings. It's the only time most people have all week to get their errands done.
Brunch?? Brunch is where you go with your parents after church.
Tried to rep you, but gotta spread it around. I totally agree. I really never looked at Brunch as something I would want to take someone for a first date or even coffee. But that seems to be the in thing now I guess
Tried to rep you, but gotta spread it around. I totally agree. I really never looked at Brunch as something I would want to take someone for a first date or even coffee. But that seems to be the in thing now I guess
Brunch really is no different than lunch, except it's on weekends only, usually. People go to lunch for first dates, why not brunch? It's just an expanded lunch menu, basically.
Yes and if he sends you d pics and asks about your underwear or other parts of your body without knowing you. He's not interested in getting to know you and a conversation always leads back to something sexual.
The thought of sending d pics, just crazy. Hard to believe women out there want to see them (beyond comedic value).
Brunch really is no different than lunch, except it's on weekends only, usually. People go to lunch for first dates, why not brunch? It's just an expanded lunch menu, basically.
I don't do lunch dates either. My first dates are usually in the evenings, where I know we have time to talk and get to know each other. Coffee, Brunch and Lunch makes it seem like you are on a time crunch. But, just like anything else, I am sure there are many people who don't mind it, and it works for them. And that's what matters
There absolutely is a quick way to see if someone is just after sex. All you have to do is have sex with the person. If he or she ends up ghosting afterward, there's your answer!
All joking aside, a big part of the problem with the OP's line of thinking is that she is treating sex like it is some magical experience. If you don't want to have sex with someone, don't have sex with someone. You shouldn't be having sex hoping to get a relationship out of it. If you can't handle having sex without becoming emotionally tied to the person, and then you end up getting hurt by him because he "used" you for sex, then for Pete's sake don't have sex until you are in a relationship with the person!!!
Oh and how can you people not like brunch??? You mustn't live around very good restaurants.
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