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My question is why would you continue to sleep with him if you know he has a girlfriend? I would have stopped because of the fact that obviously your not that important if he keeps sleeping with her too. Do you hope to have a normal relationship with him or is this all you want? If it's all you want then I don't see a problem either but if you want more just beware because obviously he's a cheater.
He used to come over to my place a lot, he's friends with my best friend. I'd get Super Nervous and I guess I've confused lust for love. I've pulled back a lot, not really available.
We talk in the week as friends. I'd love a relationship with him, but I agree I'd never trust him. I see all the lies he tells his gf, It's a loosing situation. I had a painful breakup and he reminds me a lot of my ex.
Believe me, the intense feelings will fade and soon you will see him for the snake that he is. Your feelings would have faded sooner but distance makes the heart grow fonder. My advice is stay strong and ignore his texts and phone calls. He is using you for sex without a commitment while he cheats on his girlfriend. If he left her for you he would cheat on you too. That's not fair to you. You deserve better.
I've just caught to many of my serious boyfriends cheating so I guess they all do it, most anyways. Plus I've had to many really bad breakups I wasn't always like this
I've just caught to many of my serious boyfriends cheating so I guess they all do it, most anyways. Plus I've had to many really bad breakups I wasn't always like this
All men don't cheat. But for some reason, you just tend to either gravitate toward bad men, or something about you attracts bad men. So you need to figure out why that is. And try to improve yourself. Some just have it that way. They aren't bad people, but something about them is attracting the bad ones because they feel they can get over on you. Or subconsciously, you're going for the bad ones, and misreading some of their traits and missing the flags.
You stated long-term + serious relationships bore you. So it's possible you seek out the bad boys / players due to them keeping you guessing. But sadly, bad boys aren't going to be the most reliable and trustworthy men because of the fact they'll play games and lie to you. The mysteriousness about them. That's there because they aren't connected to you emotionally, and don't care to really talk and share things with you. And sometimes what they do tell you is something they think you wanna hear - even if it's not true. So it is difficult to have a serious relationship with players and bad boys because eventually you outright find what little respect they have for you. And that it's always been there, but you misread it and take it as something good and sexy.
And surely your boyfriends cheating was upsetting for you. So you shouldn't be content to help other men cheat. Avoid the ones who already have girlfriends + wives. They'll probably cheat anyhow. But least it wouldn't be with you. Don't be a participant in inflicting the same hurt onto others that you have suffered.
Last edited by HappyRain; 01-16-2016 at 07:52 AM..
FWIW, "boy crazy" is still "crazy." It's not an attribute.
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