Your top 3 traits you look for in a bf/gf (dating, married)

[Oasiscakes]

You only have 3

1. Gorgeous/Handsome face
2. Character (good head on shoulders)
3. Wealth
4. Intellectual/intelligence
5. Artistic, Creative
6. Funny
7. Laid back, easy going
8. Ambitious
9. Confident
10. Nice body/fit
11. Caring/affectionate
12. Honest
13. Sociability

[Ruth4Truth]

Can't do it. If I don't pick "honest", it means I'm willing to risk being with someone dishonest. If I don't pick caring/affectionate, it means I can accept someone aloof or cold. If I don't pick "intelligent/intellectual", it means I'm willing to be with a dim bulb. If I don't pick "character", it means I'm willing to be with a flake or worse. If I don't pick "easy going", it means I'm ok with someone who's high-strung and stressful. If I don't pick "ambitious", it means I'm ok with someone who's passive and may be a deadbeat.


And you know that most women really appreciate a sense of humor.


So, I failed your test.

[HappyRain]

Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth

Can't do it. If I don't pick "honest", it means I'm willing to risk being with someone dishonest. If I don't pick caring/affectionate, it means I can accept someone aloof or cold. If I don't pick "intelligent/intellectual", it means I'm willing to be with a dim bulb. If I don't pick "character", it means I'm willing to be with a flake or worse. If I don't pick "easy going", it means I'm ok with someone who's high-strung and stressful. If I don't pick "ambitious", it means I'm ok with someone who's passive and may be a deadbeat.


And you know that most women really appreciate a sense of humor.


So, I failed your test.

Gotta agree here. There's many combinations of traits that make up if someone is attractive, or unattractive enough to date.

[Raena77]

It's a trick question. I pick 7-8-9 as tops.

And this same person could have the other characteristics just not as strong.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by Raena77

It's a trick question. I pick 7-8-9 as tops.

And this same person could have the other characteristics just not as strong.

That makes sense--it's a trick question.

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by Oasiscakes

You only have 3

Well, if you're forcing me to choose, I'll take the bolded:

1. Gorgeous/Handsome face
2. Character (good head on shoulders)
3. Wealth
4. Intellectual/intelligence
5. Artistic, Creative
6. Funny
7. Laid back, easy going
8. Ambitious
9. Confident
10. Nice body/fit
11. Caring/affectionate
12. Honest
13. Sociability

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by Oasiscakes

You only have 3

1. Gorgeous/Handsome face
2. Character (good head on shoulders)
3. Wealth
4. Intellectual/intelligence
5. Artistic, Creative
6. Funny
7. Laid back, easy going
8. Ambitious
9. Confident
10. Nice body/fit
11. Caring/affectionate
12. Honest
13. Sociability

For the TEST 1,10,11

For REAL 1,2,6,7,9,10,11,12 are what's most important to me

[natiam]

1, 4, and 12. Took me a while to decide. LOL.

[CSD610]

meh, mine isn't on your list........so I'm adding to it
14. Breathing
15. Breathing
16. Breathing
Always a good place to start, after that I got to know them without any requirements or prior expectations. Then if it worked out great, if not great, no disappointments.


Edited to add: I should have put *when I was dating*, since I am married I have not dated for a long time.

[belle woods]

1 character
2 kind
3 smart

My ideal guy is Prince Charming lol literally.