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Old 02-16-2016, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar View Post
Yes, I've done those things before. However, it wasn't considered "real sex" since it wasn't PIV.
Considered by who? And why would their considerations matter if they are not an involved party?
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Old 02-16-2016, 10:55 AM
 
Location: DFW
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Sorry, but all men would have to wait until hell freezes over and then thaws again, but that is just me.
Since you play for the other team you don't get a vote (thank goodness)
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Old 02-16-2016, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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Since you play for the other team you don't get a vote (thank goodness)
No fair!
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Old 02-16-2016, 10:57 AM
 
Location: East Lansing, MI
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I never use to have an issue with premarital sex. But now, I see that it does not force a man to want to make a
Committment of marriage. So no more. After this guy, I am withholding until after marriage.


I might be reading too much into this, but I find the bolded wording worrisome. Why would you want to "force" someone to make a commitment to you? I can't imagine that scenario being healthy. At all.
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Old 02-16-2016, 10:58 AM
 
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Considered by who? And why would their considerations matter if they are not an involved party?
By a lot of people. Timberline and some others are saying that I'm putting too much emphasis on "putting it in", yet when I've been physically intimate with people in other ways, it wasn't good enough since the "putting it in" part was missing. So obviously, that's how a lot of people define heterosexual sex.
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Old 02-16-2016, 10:58 AM
 
Location: East Lansing, MI
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Yes, I've done those things before. However, it wasn't considered "real sex" since it wasn't PIV.


Mormon?
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Old 02-16-2016, 10:59 AM
 
Location: DFW
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By a lot of people. Timberline and some others are saying that I'm putting too much emphasis on "putting it in", yet when I've been physically intimate with people in other ways, it wasn't good enough since the "putting it in" part was missing. So obviously, that's how a lot of people define heterosexual sex.
Very few people define it 100% this way. You are mistaken.
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Old 02-16-2016, 11:01 AM
 
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Mormon?
No.

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Very few people define it 100% this way. You are mistaken.
Well, you're a heterosexual man, right? Are you personally satisfied with sexual activities that don't include PIV?
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Old 02-16-2016, 11:02 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Since you play for the other team you don't get a vote (thank goodness)
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No fair!
Now it all makes sense! I couldn't figure out why I had thought that jjrose was a man. It's because she talked about her wife and I made an assumption! You know what they say about people that make assumptions! My apologies Jj!
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Old 02-16-2016, 11:02 AM
 
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I might be reading too much into this, but I find the bolded wording worrisome. Why would you want to "force" someone to make a commitment to you? I can't imagine that scenario being healthy. At all.
I don't want to force someone to commit to me by marrying me. I want someone that is happy to marry me.

But with my luck I seem to only attract the guys that only want sex, and have nothing to offer me. I am fed up
With being used, so this is my way of saying if you don't want me forever, you are my getting me in bed for a night.
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