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Old 02-16-2016, 11:43 AM
 
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The thought process is probably something like:


I want to have sex.
In the past, there were some women who decided they wanted to have sex with me. But we broke up.
I could go out trying to meet someone new, to hopefully get some sex.
Or I could go revisit women who have already decided they wanted to have sex with me once, so there's a chance they will want to again. Past performance is indicative of future results, despite what the investment commercials say.
It's less work, and there's the added benefit that these women and I already broke up, so they aren't likely to want strings attached when/if I can convince them to have sex with me again.
You. I like you.
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Old 02-16-2016, 12:02 PM
 
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Guys think you are easy and they can get sex without commitment.

Now, what to do about? Easy - delete any and all contacts, stop answering the phone, txt, email or any other notifications. Unfriend on FB and other social places. If you do so, they will stop bothering you.
However I have feeling you enjoy this kind of attention, or secretly hope that they will change their mind...
That is just it. I am far from easy. Have never had a one night stand or had sex outside of a relationship. I am certainly not going to start now.

If anything, the closer I get to 40, the less I even want sex. So really their chance is zilch.
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Old 02-16-2016, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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Guys think you are easy and they can get sex without commitment.

Now, what to do about? Easy - delete any and all contacts, stop answering the phone, txt, email or any other notifications. Unfriend on FB and other social places. If you do so, they will stop bothering you.
However I have feeling you enjoy this kind of attention, or secretly hope that they will change their mind...



This.
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Old 02-16-2016, 01:04 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Anyone else have exes that circle around whenever they are single? I have a couple that have been reaching out to me lately.

They already decided they were not interested in a future with me. I have already told them I am not interested in a fling and only looking for marriage.

So how do you deal with these types of exes? And why do guys do this?
just ignore them
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Old 02-16-2016, 02:18 PM
 
Location: PA
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Anyone else have exes that circle around whenever they are single? I have a couple that have been reaching out to me lately.

They already decided they were not interested in a future with me. I have already told them I am not interested in a fling and only looking for marriage.

So how do you deal with these types of exes? And why do guys do this?
Thought you had a kind of boyfriend? Finally give up?
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Old 02-16-2016, 02:19 PM
 
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What does your current guy think about this?
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Old 02-16-2016, 02:29 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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What does your current guy think about this?
Or what's he doing about it
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Old 02-16-2016, 02:48 PM
 
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Anyone else have exes that circle around whenever they are single? I have a couple that have been reaching out to me lately.

They already decided they were not interested in a future with me. I have already told them I am not interested in a fling and only looking for marriage.

So how do you deal with these types of exes? And why do guys do this?
And in another thread you just said you had a boyfriend?
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Old 02-16-2016, 03:16 PM
 
Location: My House
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That is just it. I am far from easy. Have never had a one night stand or had sex outside of a relationship. I am certainly not going to start now.

If anything, the closer I get to 40, the less I even want sex. So really their chance is zilch.
This will severely limit your dating options.
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Old 02-16-2016, 03:17 PM
 
Location: My House
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And in another thread you just said you had a boyfriend?
LoL is planning for the next one, I do believe.

I don't blame her. I think that this current one isn't gonna pan out.

I wish a new guy would move to town and meet her before he meets any of her exes and totally fall madly in love with her and her kids.

I really do wish that would happen. Because the dating pool in her town sucks.
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