is it weird for a guy to tell a girl how he feels (how to, love)

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by clintwayne

Some men think the women should always express their feelings first

If a man does then the woman has all the power

I don't think it's bad if a man tells a woman how he feels as long as it's not too much

Opinion on this?

I'd rather tell them of my feelings upfront regardless if I say it first or not.

Plus I wouldn't get moaned at " oh what took you so long to say so! "

[clintwayne]

Originally Posted by Akonyo

Depends on the situation.

If you're already in a relationship, then, yes, expressing your feelings verbally is a good idea. If you're merely interested in the woman and have strong feelings, expressing them verbally is a one way ticket to rejectionville/friend zone.

See thats what concerns me

[clintwayne]

If im just dating a girl and tell her how i feel after a few months im afraid ill get rejected

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by clintwayne

If im just dating a girl and tell her how i feel after a few months im afraid ill get rejected

That might be a legit concern after a few dates, but if you've been seeing each other for a few months and she keeps coming back, she's not going to be scared off by your feelings.

[clintwayne]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

That might be a legit concern after a few dates, but if you've been seeing each other for a few months and she keeps coming back, she's not going to be scared off by your feelings.

So 2 months would make it ok?

[jjrose]

Originally Posted by clintwayne

So 2 months would make it ok?

Each person and each relationship is different. There is no specific date or time period that anything has to be done. You should know the person well enough to know how she will react.

Dating is not about a timeline to accomplish steps, or points to be earned.

[MountainHi]

Originally Posted by clintwayne

If im just dating a girl and tell her how i feel after a few months im afraid ill get rejected

After a few months? By then, both of you should be into each other, in which case it would work in your favor. If she were going to reject you, she'd have done it already. You should be good to go.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by clintwayne

If im just dating a girl and tell her how i feel after a few months im afraid ill get rejected

2 months.....You've got no problems then mate

[clintwayne]

Thanks guys that helps

[49ersfan27]

Yeah it's bad. Women never want a man to approach them or tell them how they feel at all. It's frowned upon after all.